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12/10/2018 5:07 pm |
I tend to trust easily but once trust is lost it is hard to regain. I often regret opening up. many feel uncomfortable around the real me. Go Hard or Go Home but DON't go Home Hard
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I have a trusting nature with a suspicious mind. So I will accept someone at face value but be quick to see the little clues that say something different. Trusting someone with my heart - that means trusting that they mean it when they say they love me - not so easy. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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In my experience... trust is difficult to come by, particularly when it involves people from this site. Interesting you brought up massage... usually when a man here offers me sensual massage, I turn it down flat. Namely because it's something they offer in an email, and I find it kind of creepy (not erotic) and it's there ploy to touch me naked even though I might not have the comfort level with them. That comes in time. Mean while, I love deep tissue massage from a trained massage therapist.. I always feel better afterwards.
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Oh wow my friend those are some very serious injuries you have had. I am so glad you has surgeries to help fix your issues. I know its hard as your never the same after any kind of surgery but especially back surgery. As a matter of fact that's what is wrong with my hubby, his L4/L5 are totally herniated but at his age he wont have any kind of surgery so he just deals with the pain on a daily basis. I am so glad you found a massage therapist that you trust, that's a great thing especially after the surgeries you have had. I have heard you say great things about acupuncture, I don't know about that as I am not a big fan of needles. But you have to do what ever works and helps you. As for relationships and trusting others it takes me a while as I am not trying to rush anything did that the first marriage and I have regretted it ever since. I hope you have a great evening..
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12/10/2018 5:13 pm |
Just had surgery on L3 and L4...Ouch!!!...But yes true Trust just let's the mind relax...
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Hope all goes well for you!! Be well!!
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I trust no one until they prove they have earned it and i verify it .It is so easy for people to be deceptive and underhanded and many many are .Many do not think they are untrustworthy because the mind makes you ignore your negative points to help your ego and avoid blame, shame, or feelings of remorse .self preservation is built into our psyche .Some people really do not see the deception they commit ,or deny it even when shown proof then blame the other person .I have seen all of the above .I will not be fooled .no free rides for anyone .
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12/10/2018 5:40 pm |
It takes a while for someone to earn my trust - too many people out for themselves. I am even more wary online. That being said, once someone has earned my trust, I will do almost anything for them, but abuse that trust .... It is hard to find a good massage therapist, and so happy you have one. Does she do house calls to Australia
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Some bad falls you have taken. Hope the surgeries have helped. I am not quick to trust people for the most part and I don't regret things I have done. Have a Happy Monday!
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12/10/2018 5:52 pm |
A great acupuncturist is hard to find, but they can do amazing things to relieve pain once you find a great one. I love mine!!!
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It took a long time for me to trust, just in last 2 years am finding some real ability to enjoy this trust, and I find it so rewarding and pleasant, it puts the smile back on.. Glad your surgeries went well , I have had two on my right shoulder, the pain is gone but still limited movement even after a lot of therapy. Glad you found help that your pleased and comfy with, this is important for your comfort, mind and body.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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I tend to want to trust and believe in people. I have been burned a couple of times, but most of the time, I have not regretted trusting. Now, the funny thing is that I'm also wary and will think things through, trying to make sure that I'm not making a stupid decision. So good that you've found a massage therapist you trust...with that back surgery, I'd be really cautious too. "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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I read a quote one time that stated that the best way you can find out if you can trust someone is to trust them ( Hemingway). I do trust, but someone will only get one chance to betray that trust. Having said that my job requires that I dont always take people at face value and that transfers to my personal life.
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I'm going to tell you another little known fact about me: I've had one surgery in my life, and it messed me up pretty badly. The surgeon saved my life, but it was at a heavy price. He cut through my abs and I lost my well-defined look for a while. I lost 20 pounds of hard-earned muscle from all over my body. Although I'm very grateful to still be alive, it pissed me off. This was years ago, but I still have a faint scar from it, 4.5" straight down the center of my abs. I have pains that are usual for a guy who ran a construction company for 32 years. OK, enough about my problems. I sincerely hope that you are OK now. Your questions? I'm glad you asked. In real life, I'm a very private person, but here in Blogland I have another opportunity to say things about myself with relative anonymity. My trust is also very hard to earn. I completely trust only one person in this world, my Babygirl, a wonderful Lady who was with me a few years ago. I will let my guard down with only her. In real life, there are a handful of people who I trust in a limited way, gauged by their usefulness to me, such as my medical professionals and my lawyer. But they have only that limited trust. Here on the blogs I am really anonymous, so I "trust" about a dozen people, people like you, and others I am very familiar with. I regretted opening myself up one time, with one gal, about 30 years ago. She wound up using that against me, so I learned from that one time never to give that depth of trust again until I was certain that a Lady loved me and would not betray my trust. Aside from a few guys I've known for 20-40 years, my "best friends" have all proven to be assholes, or disappeared suddenly, or died. That is life, you rarely really know people you think are your friends. There's some wisdom for you. The NSA knows who all of us are, there's no avoiding that in our current surveillance state, but I don't concern myself about that while I'm on here. Aside from a handful of people with my limited trust, nobody else on the internet knows my identity. I've kept it that way since I first got on the internet, back in 1994. OK, I think I've said more than enough without compromising my Personal Security. All the forms of security are imperative for me. *laughs in a deadly serious way* I've given you a lot to think about. As I said, only one person in the world has earned my complete trust, so ... Si Vis Pacem Para Bellum Audentes Fortuna Iuvat Politicians. Lampposts. Assembly Required.
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I've been burned a few times in my life, but when I think about it... it was I who was delusional. I didn't read the signs the right way. Trust is about sharing secrets and your deepest personal feelings and thoughts so I have some issues about doing that right away, but over time, I'm fine with that. My strategy is simple - I'll share something with another person and wait for them to share something with me. . . At some point if I'm the only one sharing ... well ... it usually ends at that point. Either way . . I'm a big boy so I don't sweat the small stuff. It's not like I'm selling the house and moving. That's why I'm HERE . . !!! Not looking for 'forever love' . . . just looking to share a few smiles and whatever benefits come out of that. Yes a good massage is great!!! ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Dont takeit personal. Easy come easy go. Everyone is not going to stay in your life. Some are there for a season, and seasons like people change. I have a life to live. Not going to live angry or afraid if things don't work out. Being angry or afraid will keep you from living. Being angry and afraid will keep you from reaching out. Just live.
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12/10/2018 9:18 pm |
ditto LB '98, 3 op*z. titanium hrdw. ]['m (\/)y own Geiger Counter for: weather temperature intution/e-frequencies gravitational wave*z tectonic plate aberration. As ][ Am finding,,, ,,, Deep breathing and Meditation. ]-\\LL (\/)y Best 4 YU Tibetan Greeting.
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Trust.... Oy. I do trust. And I used to kick myself for trusting when I got burned. I don't do that any more. I figure if I trust someone, and they fail to be trustworthy, that's on them not me. Certainly not going to trust THAT person again, but it shouldn't carry over to the rest of my world. I do wish I could find a massage therapist who would LISTEN tho.
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Have you ever regretted opening up your heart to someone? A few times. Thoughts from the Garden...
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I have had a torn rotator cuff repair and both biceps are torn and irreparable! I regret trusting my first wife...
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