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Fred_Wreck 39 M
1  question
New member getting no love - 2/26/2020

Wondering what I'm doing wrong here. I understand that people have their types but its been about a month, should have had at least one beverage date by now. Any advice to be part of the fun would be greatly appreciated.

22 response(s), 15 votes
ludo184253 67 M
2  questions
newbie getting no replies - 2/25/2020

Hi all. I have joined recently but I get no responses to messages or IM. could anyone give me advice on what I should do? Please criticise my profile as I want to chat and get to know people <br><br> many thanks in advance <br><br> <br><br> K

19 response(s), 11 votes
ludo184253 67 M
2  questions
newbie getting no replies - 2/25/2020

Hi all. I have joined recently but I get no responses to messages or IM. could anyone give me advice on what I should do? Please criticise my profile as I want to chat and get to know people <br><br> many thanks in advance <br><br> <br><br> K

2 response(s), 2 votes
cupidisdeadagain 60 F
1  question
Site Help - 2/25/2020

New to this and am wondering if there is a way to IM without paying for a membership?

21 response(s), 23 votes
Thick, thin, or both? - 2/25/2020

So do you like thin, thick, or both? Personally depends on who it is but I use to be all over bean poles but fell for curves because I am a breast man. What do you like?

4 response(s), 0 votes
Have you ever met at the gym? - 2/25/2020

Id love to meet someone at the gym but there is tons of gears in motion, distractions like headphones, and I am not sure on gym culture. Have you ever met someone in the gym? How do you do it?

6 response(s), 0 votes
Cameda11 29 M
2  questions
how to make my girl squirt ?? - 2/24/2020

any advice will be great

21 response(s), 31 votes
Cameda11 29 M
2  questions
how to make my girl squirt ?? - 2/24/2020

any advice will be great

1 response(s), 1 vote
WyoCowboy7751 70 M
5  questions
How is it that ..... - 2/24/2020

I periodically check my profile or make updates and see that I have had X number of Profile Views and X number of Picture Views . The question here is ; How is it that pictures can have more views than profile views ?

26 response(s), 13 votes
youradventurecpl 49 C
2  questions
MFM with a BBC - 2/23/2020

My husband has a fantasy of me being with a BBC in a threesome with him. It's not something I've ever considered or not considered... I guess it's never crossed my mind. i know some women really have a fantasy about it. <br><br> His fantasy is to see it and that the guy has a monster cock. <br><br> Question... pro's and cons?

32 response(s), 36 votes
Lisamariabear 43 F
1  question
Anal - 2/23/2020

What's the best way to have anal sex or the best position to be in when you .first put. The penis in so it doesn't hurt as bad at first

65 response(s), 54 votes
Jakov150 59 M
3  questions
What would you do? - 2/22/2020

Was reading that Mikaela Spielberg the adopted of the famous movie director announced she would be as ex worker as a form of reclaiming her body and dignity after childhood episodes of abuse. Her parents are apparently supporting this career move. Seems a bit crazy and self0destructive to me. Gonna do pole dancing and whatever else to reclaim her over? Why not used daddy's millions and go to ...

17 response(s), 19 votes
Jakov150 59 M
3  questions
What would you do? - 2/22/2020

Was reading that Mikaela Spielberg the adopted of the famous movie director announced she would be as ex worker as a form of reclaiming her body and dignity after childhood episodes of abuse. Her apparent are apparently supporting this career move. Seems a bit crazy and self0destructive to me. Gonna do pole dancing and whatever else to reclaim her over? Why not used daddy's millions and go ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
paranoia/fear of bi men unfounded? - 2/19/2020

I understand and respect PERSONAL PREFERENCES. This post is NOT an attack or dismissal of anyone's choices. What I am asking are the "preferences" due to paranoid thought process. <br><br> Example: <br><br> Single females who say no"bi men". There are many legit reasons or feelings as to why a F chooses that. <br><br> This question ...

43 response(s), 37 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
missing posts - 2/19/2020

What is with all the posts being removed. <br><br> Are we being censored?

17 response(s), 12 votes
ScottyEcv 53 C
3  questions
What's your thought on the subject? - 2/18/2020

Would you tell them upfront that you recognized them from this site? Or Would you not say anything. Using the information you've learned from studying their profile to your advantage?

28 response(s), 24 votes
tightsmoothfuck 30 M
11  questions
Sex and Marriage - 2/17/2020

So, I've seen a lot of the guys I went to high school with get married and have lately. But I'm finding that they're all pretty much complaining that the sex stops after marriage or it's just not the same, which got me thinking... Can a marriage survive if the sex is completely gone but the relationship is still pretty solid?

22 response(s), 13 votes
Whiskeydog6969 47 M
1  question
bad in bed - 2/15/2020

i recently met this woman, very , very horny, problem is she is not very active in bed, she just lays there, she is up for doing anything and everything but she is just kind of boring while doing it. how do I proceed with this? she is very beautiful and likes sex but it sometimes gets boring because she just lays there, help me please, what can I do.

54 response(s), 29 votes
IamBigSir78 42 M
1  question
Sexless Marriages - 2/14/2020

Sexless Marriages <br><br> <br><br> How do you or I or anyone survive a sexless marriage? is cheating and going on citymixx.com the solution? When counseling and multiple talks do nothing change the libido or attitudes of the low libido partner. What is one do? You do not want leave your partner, but they are never satisfying needs you have. What is the logical next ...

17 response(s), 14 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
Pardon the 2nd question - 2/12/2020

What are appropriate "question" or subjects here? <br><br> I see a lot of "what advice are you asking for", "this belongs in a blog", and other "not here" comments. <br><br> Often in the "size" type questions get "check the archives" [like a hall of mirrors each post "reflects same thing]. Personal ...

57 response(s), 33 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 66 C
46  questions
What's in a name? gender neutral names etc. - 2/12/2020

When we first started using the internet to chat we used our real names. But because we both have relatively gender neutral names it caused confusion. <br><br> [although it was fun fucking with the single men who thought they were chatting with the female. They'd want to meet 'alone'. After they got me to agree I'd tell them I was the male then ask them when ...

13 response(s), 16 votes
NZ_DashnD 68 M
3  questions
Story Links not working - 2/11/2020

Can anyone tell why the links to a contributors other stories do not work and or if there is a work around to this problem. <br><br> It's really annoying when you come across a great story and want to read others from the same author only to get sent to a blank page. <br><br> Regards, An Avid Reader

12 response(s), 14 votes
VAguy7572020 38 M
2  questions
Do you travel far to meet up? - 2/11/2020

Would you travel far to meet up? How far would you go? Im willing to go within an hour but could be open to more.

6 response(s), 1 vote
Adventurecpl47 76 C
20  questions
BBC as a qualifier in an ad. - 2/11/2020

What is the fascination with a black cock?

36 response(s), 32 votes
Sexei_Doheragary 29 C
2  questions
COUPLES! Were you guys having 3somes and moresomes before you met each other? - 2/11/2020

Maybe one of you were or maybe both of you were. Or maybe this is new for you both! love to know

24 response(s), 23 votes
VAguy7572020 38 M
2  questions
Do you meet new people? - 2/11/2020

Do you meet new people? I tend to be more open, lets meet up for drinks, food, whatever. How about you? Why not enjoy life and take advantage to free time and freedom?

0 response(s), 0 votes
lyavu 50 F
37  questions
SECOND CHANCE !!! - 2/10/2020

I met a guy on the site 2 years ago . We had an instant connection but i got a job promotion two days after our meeting and my schedule became hectic before we could pursue anything. Anyone joins in a management position can relate.We did communicate but he was so impatient to even wait another week. I kept communicating but he never responded to my msgs . Fast forward he contacted me last ...

54 response(s), 37 votes
sextoybabe77 45 F
7  questions
ice breaker...... - 2/8/2020

what happened to the ice breaker and thoughts on the changes to the site

4 response(s), 5 votes
albanynycouple51 63 C
8  questions
input on green door swingers sex club las vegas nv ,how is it ? - 2/8/2020

we going thrus feb 27 and seeking info on the club who goes hows the rooms n play ares ? would you go back ? any and all info welcome ty .
...

4 response(s), 15 votes
Hawkfan533333 34 M
8  questions
First time with a couple - 2/8/2020

I have been approached couples, and it's definitely something I'm interested in. Was wondering if you have any advice on this topic, or if you have joined a couple, what was your experience like the first time.

19 response(s), 12 votes