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weerrhuu 61 C
3  questions
Score 45.1
State of the....... - 1/17/2020

advice line. <br><br> We would like to hear what you think of the trend of posts and responses on the advice line. We don't want opinions about the site itself. The advice line is free for all and doesn't require points to participate. So we just want to hear what you think about it. <br><br> If you like it and feel you are enjoying it completely, we would still ...

21 response(s), 31 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
36  questions
Score 29.0
what happened to "respond"? - 1/17/2020

I went back to my previous question to respond but it wouldn't allow me to to so. Ha to use the "quote" to respond. <br><br> To quote a song lyric..."how long has this been going on"?

20 response(s), 12 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Gentlemen - 1/17/2020

Is a female mistaken if she expects to find men on Citymixx who behave like gentlemen? In the last few days, I have received some messages which I found way over the line and disgusting. I am ready to come over and f... your c... really good. I want to f... you tonight, call me and I will f... and use you all night. I have the best dick, I will f... the s.. out of you, etc. etc. Are there ...

23 response(s), 21 votes
yummmmmmyMe 43 M
2  questions
Score 3.4
wasn't it more charming without "coining" for every single mail? - 1/17/2020

I so much liked the "good old days" of Citymixx - writing eMails without being charged, sending messages for free, watching profiles .... I blame Citymixx for not having sex on a regular base anymore! Do I really need to from now on ...? Looking forward to your highly appreciated advice!!!!

16 response(s), 17 votes
Klewis64 21 M
3  questions
Score 21.1
How many hours a day are you on this site? - 1/17/2020

Just curious, how much time do you think you spend on Citymixx in an average day?

38 response(s), 27 votes
baladi2019 36 M
1  question
Score 1.2
what - 1/17/2020

i want real women but here virtual

22 response(s), 15 votes
Free Points Idea - 1/17/2020

Reply here to gain free Points for replies.

40 response(s), 34 votes
What's the best way to hook up - 1/16/2020

Any suggestions on hooking up

21 response(s), 13 votes
Goldenman56x 63 M
7  questions
Score 5.4
Blowing - 1/16/2020

Do you worry about diseases when someone is blowing you?

35 response(s), 44 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
36  questions
Score 29.0
Who is Marvin? - 1/16/2020

There is much 'in fighting' on this forum. Nothing new, it has been going on for years [over a decade in fact]. It is not uncommon for <br><br> I am recovering from another procedure and have some "free time" and decided to check out what was going on. <br><br> Missing from this round is the Tennessee Troll and the ntn profiles. {you may remember it ...

37 response(s), 34 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
36  questions
Score 29.0
Who is Marvin? - 1/16/2020

There is much 'in fighting' on this forum. Nothing new, it has been going on for years [over a decade in fact]. It is not uncommon for <br><br> I am recovering from another procedure and have some "free time" and decided to check out what was going on. <br><br> Missing from this round is the Tennessee Troll and the ntn profiles. {you may remember it ...

3 response(s), 3 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
2  questions
Score 19.9
Why - 1/16/2020

Why do I get a ton of ppl from other states and countries constantly viewing my profile?

33 response(s), 28 votes
Hawkfan533333 30 M
2  questions
Score 19.9
Membership - 1/16/2020

Is it worth getting a membership on here, or shld I just stick with using my points?

25 response(s), 17 votes
Imthegoodguy32 32 M
2  questions
Score 14.3
Is it ok to hookup with new people fresh after separating from your wife? - 1/16/2020

Long story short: I just separated from my wife of 4 years. She cheated a lot and I need to get over her. I feel like booming up with a new girl would help but have heard otherwise. Should I wait or keep looking. Thoughts?

58 response(s), 31 votes
Imthegoodguy32 32 M
2  questions
Score 14.3
Is it ok to hookup with new people fresh after separating from your wife? - 1/16/2020

Long story short: I just separated from my wife of 4 years. She cheated a lot and I need to get over her. I feel like booming up with a new girl would help but have heard otherwise. Should I wait or keep looking. Thoughts?

3 response(s), 2 votes
debra0002 24 F
1  question
Score 6.7
Who can get free Gold Membership? - 1/16/2020

Someone told me that female profile will autometicaly get Free gold membership, is it true?

39 response(s), 42 votes
What is up with that? - 1/16/2020

There are a lot of people looking, but no action...

24 response(s), 23 votes
What is up with that? - 1/16/2020

There are a lot of people looking, but no action...

2 response(s), 1 vote
TJwanderer98 45 M
1  question
Score 15.9
Hair or no hair - 1/15/2020

So what’s your preference hairy, bald, or well groomed?

51 response(s), 31 votes
Superman4695 34 M
53  questions
Score 39.8
So a best guess... - 1/15/2020

as to real numbers for active members. The top blog post has around 1800 votes/replies in 29 days. So what percentage are participating as anyone gets a link to top blogs in a few places. have to assume most people see it. 5% would make it 36, 000 worldwide and 1% would make it 180, 000 worldwide members. Far cry from the millions they claim. I would bet it is south of 0K.

18 response(s), 16 votes
Freak698286 37 C
2  questions
Score 6.9
How far is too far - 1/15/2020

What happens when someone doesn't obey your rules??

19 response(s), 20 votes
Freak698286 37 C
2  questions
Score 6.9
How far is too far - 1/15/2020

What happens when someone doesn't obey your rules??

0 response(s), 2 votes
dangbitches 54 F
34  questions
Score 18.0
Little Confused Bling - 1/15/2020

I read the bling manager, I don't have time to make bling at this time. I tried to use the chickens I got as a gift all that came up were the numbers. I went back to see if I copied it wrong and they are gone. When I select the bling on my profile it takes me to the maker. How can I use bling? I'm not understanding it I guess. I like my chickens they are sweet and can come in handy ...

21 response(s), 21 votes
Klewis64 21 M
3  questions
Score 21.1
I just want points - 1/15/2020

Didn't Citymixx used to give 3 free chats a day to standard members?

16 response(s), 14 votes
LisaSuxDix 46 F
1  question
Score 3.6
Why did my gold membership go away - 1/15/2020

Why did gold membership go away

34 response(s), 36 votes
Senior sizzle? - 1/15/2020

Has anyone got some information on site called " senior sizzle" ?? Thank you in advance!

24 response(s), 14 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
AL question removed - 1/15/2020

Over the last few months several AL questions of mine have been removed and I wonder if this has happened also others? Asking, if I owe a friend , because he was made believe I am on IM when I was preoccupied with more important things should not be a cause remove question or is it?

26 response(s), 23 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Pics & Videos - 1/15/2020

What is the purpose of pics and videos on a profile in your opinion? While picture collectors enjoy many pics others appear to prefer videos, while some others just like to see pics to determine if there is a sexual attraction. Mostly guys JUST WANT ! I posted pics communicate what I like do when I make love, so there is no misunderstanding, and this is also the reason why I have had ...

26 response(s), 25 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
2  questions
Score 10.5
Are douche's bad for you? - 1/15/2020

And I'm not talking about the asshole kind <br><br> I've been using douches ever since I realized I loved get nailed, but I'm hearing that they might be bad for you in the long run. I've heard that all you need is a fiber diet clean yourself so there are no accidents during . But, I'm scared not use it before I hook up. <br><br> What do you guys ...

8 response(s), 7 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
A difficult situation - 1/15/2020

Do you think a blog; AL or making a poll out of it would be the best way to go? While spending Xmas in NYC, I met a couple through a GF of mine, she is quite a few years younger than him. He is handsome, fun, well to do, just a wonderful gentlemen and his wife encourages him to have lovers, since she is not much into love making. However, he is only allowed to do it with a condom and while she ...

26 response(s), 19 votes
t145m 58 M
1  question
Score 16.9
points - 1/15/2020

what's the quickest way to pile up points

30 response(s), 20 votes
nehouguy 41 C
1  question
Score 13.5
Free Chats? - 1/14/2020

Didn't this used to give you a few free chats , on the house, every day?

39 response(s), 32 votes
Rockforddaddie1 35 M
1  question
Score 9.9
This is just a test. - 1/14/2020

Looking for - reply get some of your own!

25 response(s), 27 votes
thus ???? - 1/14/2020

Discussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Als

10 response(s), 13 votes
ch3rryp13 29 F
2  questions
Score 10.6
TEST QUESTION - 1/14/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

34 response(s), 37 votes
SiteSupport 32 C
3  questions
Score 6.3
TEST QUESTION - 1/14/2020

This is a test. Please ignore.

30 response(s), 18 votes
riversidecpl4cpl 61 C
36  questions
Score 29.0
Testimonials [certifications] - 1/14/2020

Testimonial Description In promotion and of advertising, a testimonial consists of a person's written or spoken statement extolling the virtue of a product. <br><br> In this case the product is the profile. The virtue is their existence. <br><br> <br><br> One of the best ways we have used to find "real people" is sadly abused to the point of ...

23 response(s), 21 votes
Drazoth 25 M
1  question
Score 7.2
Is the Content Filter acting up for anyone else? - 1/14/2020

I've got my content filter set "everything", yet it blocks images as if it where set "some nudity". Is this happening anyone else? Or does anyone know of a fix?

27 response(s), 15 votes
lake1997 56 M
1  question
Score 44.1
why is it so hard to hook up on here ? - 1/14/2020

I mean really . it's even hard get someone chat on , I mean if you are on isn't that why you are on it ?

56 response(s), 35 votes
Mb607656 27 M
8  questions
Score 6.9
Sending pictures - 1/14/2020

Ok, I'm having issues sending a picture another user on here who doesn't want use an external app or email etc. I can attach my profile picture, but the only other option is uploading one from my tablet/phone and it won't ball. If I send from my message page just shows a loading bar and never finishes, if I try from the other persons page it won't work either. And this site ...

24 response(s), 24 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Did anyone ever visit you by going through a window? - 1/13/2020

I just wonder if anyone could enlighten me what the difference is between Window 7 and 10, as far as safety is concerned. Is it similar to a condom? What are the advantages and disadvantages? ...

35 response(s), 48 votes
BolivarMOuy 47 M
1  question
Score 9.2
limits and safewords - 1/13/2020

I am curious as the opinion of others about what they think about the use of safewords and limits within meeting others. Do you use them? Do you think they are needed? Do you think they are important?

46 response(s), 32 votes
Justlookin19974 45 M
5  questions
Score 24.4
Points???? - 1/13/2020

How does the system on here really work? I have over 1900pts and can not redeem any of them. Please help me?

39 response(s), 42 votes
Ziost113 35 M
1  question
Score 7.4
To speak sexy or not? - 1/13/2020

Hi ladies. I'm curious when someone tries to talk to you, do you prefer them starting talking about sex on here or not? Some women seem to be angered by it even though this is a sex site. Am I wrong?

49 response(s), 33 votes
Stradolin 52 M
1  question
Score 4.5
"rm_" ? - 1/12/2020

I have seen a of profiles lately that have the prefix "rm_" before the username. Does anyone have any idea what this might be all about?

24 response(s), 17 votes
tightsmoothfuck 31 M
2  questions
Score 10.5
Is he gay if he loves fucking my ass? - 1/12/2020

I have a straight and married guy that loved fuck from time time. He calls himself straight, but the dude loves ass, so I'm thinking he's bi but won't admit it. Maybe he likes being in a straight relationship but loves fucking tight ass? IT's honestly not a big deal, but I'm curious. <br><br> What do you think?

57 response(s), 39 votes
Where did you get the idea - 1/11/2020

Is there a local connection

1 response(s), 0 votes
Tiim_1979 40 M
1  question
Score 8.5
why message if your not going to continue after "hello" - 1/11/2020

I've been getting a few IM's, then after I reply, nothing. Is this common on here? I'm not saying anything offensive. just a simple greeting returning the "hello". anyway, just seeing if anyone else has this happen a lot.

83 response(s), 74 votes
InUrReach 59 M
1  question
Score 7.3
Do you squirt ??? - 1/11/2020

I have never had sex more than a few times with a lady where is didn't squirt. All women can , why don't more ??

75 response(s), 101 votes
Mega_manX 40 M
3  questions
Score 9.3
LTR on Citymixx - 1/11/2020

Serious question, has anyone ever found a long term relationship on this site? How long did it last if so?

55 response(s), 49 votes
Mega_manX 40 M
3  questions
Score 9.3
LTR on Citymixx - 1/11/2020

Serious question, has anyone ever found a long term relationship on this site? How long did it last if so?

5 response(s), 2 votes
LatinLeprechaun7 50 F
7  questions
Score 24.8
Put It In A Poll - 1/10/2020

We have all read questions, here in the advice section, that would be better suited as a poll. Since, I'm the curious sort I looked in the section that had polls and it seems that unless you have a blog you can not create a poll. Am I overlooking something? Can members create a poll without having a blog? Thank you in advance for your replies. Happy New Year! Not Bling Owner...

39 response(s), 77 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Score 2.7
Points contributed - 1/10/2020

Is there a function that allows someone to “” to you? Has anyone ever received from an admirer??

34 response(s), 43 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Score 2.7
Finding fun on the road - 1/10/2020

Do you change your overall location or do you just put travel location in when you travel and try to find fun?

30 response(s), 39 votes
MarkCorona84u 44 M
3  questions
Score 2.7
Travel - 1/10/2020

Best way to connect via Citymixx when you are traveling for business? Any advice would be welcome!

27 response(s), 20 votes
Klewis64 21 M
3  questions
Score 21.1
Milfs - 1/10/2020

Where should I go to meet older women? It's difficult to know where to meet them when you're than they are.

30 response(s), 42 votes
Jaxxx2020 34 M
1  question
To let it all hang out or not? - 1/10/2020

Ok this is a serious question for the ladies on the sight. How do you feel about dick pics not only on a profile but also receiving them in your inbox. I’ve got mixed responses in the past so emu information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

29 response(s), 35 votes
Real or Otherwise - 1/10/2020

What percentage of the people are on this site do you think are genuine? The reason I ask is that the 'known' people have viewed my profile or 'hotlisted' me are ALL in the 30-35 age group and generally live thousands of miles away! Thankfully they are all women but each to their own.My guess is the genuine people on here will be lucky to be at 50-60%

38 response(s), 40 votes
MercedCouple209 48 C
3  questions
Pegging and homophobic men - 1/9/2020

In case you missed it, or this is the first time you’re hearing about this empowering sex act, pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates her partner anally. Usually, pegging is often reserved to describe the act between heterosexual couples, so it’s a woman flipping the traditional gender dynamic and “banging” the man. <br><br> Are you really that homophbic

46 response(s), 76 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
4  questions
Score 0.1
This community is linked? - 1/9/2020

So I decided to google search my name on the website and the community section of the website came back in the results, several times over and most under different names, other than Citymixx. <br><br> Didn't need to log in to see the community page. <br><br> Whats with that?

41 response(s), 52 votes
Pullmytrigger56 52 M
1  question
Today - 1/9/2020

Is it thursday yet?

22 response(s), 31 votes
bacchettina 50 M
2  questions
Score 5.4
group masturbation - 1/9/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

52 response(s), 73 votes
bacchettina 50 M
2  questions
Score 5.4
group masturbation - 1/9/2020

is a dream or a nightmare?

4 response(s), 6 votes
Woahseedstream 38 M
1  question
Score 4.5
Gender fakes... a bit of curiosity. - 1/9/2020

Ok so I know from the guy perspective that when it comes to fake profiles I typically get. However, I saw this mentioned somewhere and it got me confused and curious at the same time. So are there really MALE fake profiles? If so what are some pointers to get around them.

35 response(s), 25 votes
tallcool2013 44 M
3  questions
Score 15.1
size - 1/8/2020

do women love ten inch cocks?

25 response(s), 35 votes
AtxSexyChubb 35 M
2  questions
Score 7.9
Do you believe in life after love? - 1/8/2020

I can feel something inside me say that I really don't think I'm strong enough. Am I?

23 response(s), 24 votes
mytitsareuphere 23 F
1  question
Score 0.8
Changing from vanilla - 1/8/2020

Ladies, and men too, I guess, what tips or tricks do you have to spice up otherwise vanilla missionary sex? I have a few: Women: reach down and tickle his balls when he's in Men: push in as far as she wants and just hold that position. Don't thrust, just keep it Women and men: lick their necks <br><br> Any other good ones?

39 response(s), 45 votes
Cjog78 27 M
1  question
Score 2.6
Strapon vs cock - 1/8/2020

What’s better? A nice hard cock or a great strapon fucking from a hot woman?

41 response(s), 36 votes
AtxSexyChubb 35 M
2  questions
Score 7.9
My Nipples Ache....What should I do? - 1/8/2020

They ache for a masculine muscular older man suck on them

39 response(s), 43 votes
dangbitches 54 F
34  questions
Score 18.0
Oh the fakes - 1/7/2020

I know some of you are well versed on fake profiles. I'm sure I get some fake mail but how do you know they are fake? What should I look out for? I really enjoy poking around and looking at profiles if I'm able. How do you know when someone has more than one profile? Or they made a new one? Sorry about all the questions. Guess it's better than "does the IM work"

88 response(s), 70 votes
spice_it_up49 49 M
1  question
Women in Lingerie..... - 1/7/2020

I love a woman that dresses up for her man/woman. Do woman enjoy dressing in lingerie or is it done for their partner?

52 response(s), 68 votes
Chubbihorny 49 C
1  question
bisexual swingers - 1/7/2020

is there any cool and safe place in Hollywood Fl or Fort Lauderdale to meet other bisexual couples?

38 response(s), 52 votes
tallcool2013 44 M
3  questions
Score 15.1
why? - 1/7/2020

why am i so sexy?

47 response(s), 37 votes
Timepiece201i 51 M
1  question
Women - 1/6/2020

Do you prefer young women or the more mature one?

60 response(s), 57 votes
Nostradamus - 1/6/2020

FYI, <br><br> Every once in a Blue Moon I see a member's pic that catches my eye and feel the need to leave a comment. Well, today I saw such one. When I went to leave a comment, up popped a new a new message, informing me that it now cost Standard members 10 pts to leave a comment. The site use to give you a couple of pts whenever you left a comment. I'm just as sick and ...

36 response(s), 49 votes
davies11223344 40 M
2  questions
Throbbing - 1/6/2020

I'm throbbing

41 response(s), 41 votes
davies11223344 40 M
2  questions
Hello - 1/6/2020

Yeah

17 response(s), 14 votes
Locals - 1/6/2020

Any B.C. locals that know of good outdoor spots to have naked fun?

21 response(s), 27 votes
robdessertrider2 63 M
4  questions
Man VS Vibrator - 1/6/2020

This is a question for persons who delight in ability to make a woman scream with delight. <br><br> I have been with a couple of women, who depend on their battery powered Hatachi Toy to climax, and honestly that dependency is a turn off to me. <br><br> I love the way women can climax in rapid peaks in a row, I wish I could feel that many orgasms without a break. I used ...

40 response(s), 34 votes
MaximumMylf 60 C
2  questions
best condom for oral - 1/6/2020

We have tried several condoms, and my Dom is unhappy with the loss of feeling of every one we have tried so far, as in loosing 80% of the feeling. Since he is taking me to blow strangers, does anyone have any suggestions for which brand of condom is best for oral???

47 response(s), 62 votes
MaximumMylf 60 C
2  questions
best condom for oral - 1/6/2020

We have tried several condoms, and my Dom is unhappy with the loss of feeling of every one we have tried so far, as in loosing 80% of the feeling. Since he is taking me to blow strangers, does anyone have any suggestions for which brand of condom is best for oral???

3 response(s), 9 votes
Lolaloquita 45 T
1  question
Score 2.0
Crossdressers - 1/6/2020

What can i do find a real ?

29 response(s), 29 votes
wewillfuck2day 39 C
1  question
Score 1.0
meetings - 1/6/2020

do people actually meet onhere anymore or just a bunch of piccllectors

51 response(s), 52 votes
BigMilkyTits 44 F
1  question
Standard Member Points - 1/5/2020

Whats the quickest or easiest way get more points when you're a standard member?

64 response(s), 58 votes
lookg4fun4all 61 M
1  question
Score 1.0
does anyone read these questions? - 1/5/2020

Let me now if anyone reads these questions? If so I am curious are you happy with Citymixx? The point system? The ?

40 response(s), 26 votes
Bmdfromjtown 57 M
1  question
Women - 1/5/2020

Can women non-paying members on Citymixx?

44 response(s), 26 votes
reaper3791 48 M
3  questions
New IM points system - 1/5/2020

I really do not like how to anyone on IM it's gonna you points to start a conversation or answer an incoming page. It's difficult to maintain enough points. It's ridiculous in my opinion!

59 response(s), 61 votes
Highliffebbw 29 F
2  questions
How good is black cock - 1/4/2020

Been wanting to try one and can’t seem to get my hands on it well y’all give me some answer

52 response(s), 66 votes
Highliffebbw 29 F
2  questions
How good is black cock - 1/4/2020

Been wanting to try one and can’t seem to get my hands on it well y’all give me some answer

10 response(s), 5 votes
DvillePUSSYEATER 49 M
1  question
Score 2.1
Who Is Wrong / Who Is Right - 1/4/2020

Me and wife have been married almost 35 yrs. never once did I get a swallowing blow job.Now she would suck on it but when I would get close she would finish me Jacking me. Also for those same of years I always preformed cunnilingus, usually 1st. but always. <br><br> <br><br> So my question is would I be wrong if I found some1 that didn't mind blowing me.

60 response(s), 52 votes
Tony28197 40 M
1  question
crave something different - 1/4/2020

Do you ever just crave something different, not quite sure what you want and your mind races around? what do you recommend? what to try to spice up life?

28 response(s), 41 votes
reaper3791 48 M
3  questions
First meeting - 1/4/2020

I've met my fair share of people on here and for me, every single first meeting ending up involving sex. Is it a common occurrence?

34 response(s), 43 votes
reaper3791 48 M
3  questions
A question for the ladies - 1/4/2020

What is your biggest turn on in a situation?

16 response(s), 28 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
19  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

45 response(s), 31 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
19  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

4 response(s), 7 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
19  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

2 response(s), 3 votes
Adventurecpl47 72 C
19  questions
bathroom door - 1/4/2020

You are having some good sex with friend(s) and someone has to pee. Do you close the door?

1 response(s), 5 votes
Lumbee1027 42 M
1  question
Score 0.1
Point - 1/4/2020

Besides becoming a member. What is the best way to get points

28 response(s), 12 votes
Justlookin19974 45 M
5  questions
Score 24.4
Instant Messenger - 1/4/2020

How many instant messages do standard members get to daily?

49 response(s), 33 votes
canasiancpl 46 C
1  question
How do you know if you are bicurious/bisexual or other...? - 1/3/2020

The life style seems to encourage people to try new things with other consenting adults. When it comes to sexuality is it normal to evolve over time or fluctuate? Be interested to hear from other men and women on this and especially couples!

67 response(s), 55 votes
Points suck - 1/3/2020

As stated points system sucks

43 response(s), 42 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Acceptable Time - 1/3/2020

What is an acceptable amount of time to be spent on Citymixx for someone who is gainfully employed? When you log in you are already confronted with exiting videos& pics, of which there are plenty of in the log on screen . You start thinking, awesome, could we be a match, could I stop by while traveling, does he, she, they have the same desires? You watch the clip, you look at the pics, ...

44 response(s), 69 votes
tallcool2013 44 M
3  questions
Score 15.1
love - 1/2/2020

whats that about?

28 response(s), 22 votes
FFU22018 52 F
15  questions
Score 70.2
"... opened to, or up for, anything." - 1/2/2020

I was looking through some "straight" profiles and noticed a lot of them using the phrase, "...opened , or up for, anything." Gotta say, it kind of makes throw up a little bit. Makes a guy sound like a cum rag... ready sop up the semen soup. WTF is that supposed mean? Is it code let other men know he's not straight?

60 response(s), 87 votes
SeeksCams 56 M
1  question
Score 3.3
"Superphoto" doesn't always work? - 1/2/2020

Recently I've noticed that clicking on a member's photo usually doesn't bring up a larger version - I get a blank rectangle on the bottom right of the page and nothing else. Sometimes, it does work. And, yes, there IS a larger photo. <br><br> If I go to the photo's URL and replace the word "main" at the end with "superphoto" I get the larger photo. ...

16 response(s), 30 votes
Girthguy469 46 M
1  question
Verification - 1/2/2020

Do you get points for becoming a verified member?

25 response(s), 28 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Friends & Love - 1/2/2020

In your opinion, what is better, having a handful or a couple of dozen friends? Yes, indeed, I am not talking about FB or Citymixx friends, but real friends you spend valuable time with. Share thoughts, experiences, dreams, exchange opinions, show your love and help out when needed. Can we ever have too many friends? What advice would you give to someone who works 6 to 10 hours a ...

42 response(s), 55 votes
lukeaskewedx2 60 M
12  questions
Score 18.4
I don't have a blog - 1/1/2020

So I'm gonna post this here. Do you think standard members should be silenced here on the A/L or charged points to post here ?

86 response(s), 48 votes
NieveNate69 53 M
1  question
Score 1.6
Private Message - 1/1/2020

As a non-paying member, why can I sometimes read private email messages and sometimes I can't because they are blurred ?

46 response(s), 43 votes
Goodloveingman69 32 M
3  questions
Living - 1/1/2020

How long have you been without sex?

28 response(s), 29 votes
2CravenMoorehead 44 M
2  questions
Score 12.8
What do you do when she’s seems to strong you along? - 12/31/2019

Hey...one of the issues with this site seems to be that some women (or guys, I suspect) just talk talk talk and never want to meet? What if the person seems cool and you believe them to be legit, but they always have some reason they can’t meet up? Do you throw in the towel or just keep trying? Seems to get old. Why do people do this? We’re talking MONTHS. I feel like I’m patient.

47 response(s), 35 votes
2CravenMoorehead 44 M
2  questions
Score 12.8
What to do when you have no place to meet? - 12/31/2019

So, I’m always running into the issue of I can’t host and neither can she. Car sex is typically awful. Any ideas?

62 response(s), 27 votes
lyavu 46 F
22  questions
Score 2.0
NO ATTRACTION BUT GREAT PERSONALITY . - 12/31/2019

I am sure most of you have been in situations like that . A friend talked to a guy on the site. Great conversation and connection online ..She decided to meet the guy but down side no attraction but awesome personality. He has good sexual energy.The guy has some qualities she wanted but no attraction. She is so drawn to his persona but .... What advice would you give in such a situation?

41 response(s), 61 votes
joozee1 59 F
27  questions
Swinger Vacation Stories - 12/31/2019

Can anyone that has been on one or more lifestyle vacations, weekends, or cruises give me some hints about what to make sure I look for in the planning stage ..(thanks in advance ) ?

16 response(s), 47 votes
up4goodtimennm 46 M
3  questions
IM - 12/31/2019

Just wondering if anyone likes the new IM format? It seems that Citymixx is really pushing everyone go gold. Is it just ?

37 response(s), 43 votes
Domdadda33 35 M
2  questions
Deepthroat? - 12/31/2019

Do you enjoy deepthroating, gagging, being facefucked?

40 response(s), 28 votes
Domdadda33 35 M
2  questions
Deepthroat? - 12/31/2019

Do you enjoy deepthroating, gagging, being facefucked?

4 response(s), 6 votes
nerdygirl721 30 F
7  questions
Preparing for anal - 12/30/2019

Been wanting to try anal, but don't want to get my ass torn up. What are the best ways to prepare, so I can enjoy it?

85 response(s), 73 votes
nerdygirl721 30 F
7  questions
Preparing for anal - 12/30/2019

Been wanting to try anal, but don't want to get my ass torn up. What are the best ways to prepare, so I can enjoy it?

9 response(s), 13 votes
Rapidguy776 34 M
2  questions
Instant messenger - 12/30/2019

Is the i.m. working at all anymore? Cant seem to have a full conversation there.

53 response(s), 47 votes
licidtysplit 54 C
1  question
New years get together - 12/30/2019

Where's the new years party for Kentucky/Tennessee?

21 response(s), 33 votes
Justlookin19974 45 M
5  questions
Score 24.4
Quickies? Are the they good? - 12/30/2019

So mornings when you have to work, my women sees nothing wrong with getting a sex quickie.

55 response(s), 55 votes
Pleasurecook83 36 M
1  question
Best way to ring in New Year? - 12/30/2019

Tell me your thoughts on the best way to ring in the New Year/ New Decade! I am torn as to how I want to this year.....

28 response(s), 38 votes
Building a repor - 12/29/2019

So there are people looking for friends with benefits or more... what do you do to build a stronger connection with and without sex as the center of conversation?

20 response(s), 26 votes
Sxynathong 36 M
1  question
first time 3 some - 12/29/2019

How to find the right couple to join for 3 some?

29 response(s), 41 votes
Married men - 12/29/2019

How many of you Married men wish your wife was bi and good with you being bi also?

36 response(s), 61 votes
Hishers1982 37 C
1  question
Foursomes - 12/28/2019

Are they fun?

64 response(s), 95 votes
Kinks4328 37 M
1  question
Ass - 12/28/2019

Do women like playing with a mans ass?

39 response(s), 54 votes
OHMMxxx 65 M
1  question
Score 3.9
Does anyone care anymore if their partner has pubic hair or not? - 12/28/2019

I've been with several women on this site and most are completely shaven and really nice. I was intrigued by one woman who I met here and although she was trimmed; she didn't like men who had pubic hair. She had a nice body, but was a little immature and self centered.

88 response(s), 55 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Life & Work Balance - 12/28/2019

What do you consider a healthy life & work balance? <br><br> . in advance for your comments and happy 2020 you Not Bling Owner...

39 response(s), 59 votes
Pussypleaser8269 37 M
2  questions
Is this site worth the money? - 12/28/2019

Just wondering, if anyone is having success on here. Is it worth all that it offers to become a member? Thanks

41 response(s), 39 votes
SEDUCTOR692019 24 M
8  questions
Score 1.4
¿Que les gusta ver en un show cam de hombre? - 12/27/2019

He trasmitido en varias ocasiones y me han dado propina, lo que dice que es poco frecuente si eres hombre, pero busco la manera de potenciar mi actuación , por eso pregunto que les gusta ver en la wed cam de un hombre

9 response(s), 18 votes
Heathen_G 61 M
28  questions
Score 14.9
Just Three Questions to Ponder, as I am. - 12/27/2019

> Is life really a gift? <br><br> > Is love really a gift? . <br><br> > Would you consider an organ transplant more of gift, and maybe also a device to give you "Hearing" [for the first time]? <br><br> Maybe "Gift" is the wrong noun. For sure one of us uses the word "Gift" incorrectly when describing an ejaculation. ...

34 response(s), 56 votes
Maxbillion87 32 M
3  questions
Score 0.1
Pleasure yourself - 12/27/2019

What is your favorite way to pleasure yourself

57 response(s), 45 votes
MercedCouple209 48 C
3  questions
Problems Uploading Video - 12/26/2019

Anyone else having problems uploading video clips Cant upload via phone or computer Anyone else having problems uploading video

33 response(s), 31 votes
MercedCouple209 48 C
3  questions
Problems Uploading Video - 12/26/2019

Anyone else having problems uploading video clips Cant upload via phone or computer Anyone else having problems uploading video

0 response(s), 4 votes
Mrdesire28 30 M
1  question
is this site really worth becoming a gold member. - 12/26/2019

I have seen sites like this before always wanting to upgrade. Its not that Im cheap. Its that is a site like this really worth the money to find people like minded that want to have fun and enjoy the erotic side of life without being judged?

64 response(s), 65 votes
1980hwl 48 M
6  questions
Keep getting points - 12/26/2019

Needing to keep secret time here, how do you get membership, cash?

32 response(s), 40 votes
dariusj001 35 M
1  question
Score 0.6
My Question - 12/26/2019

isn't a question. You know what it is lol.

21 response(s), 29 votes
kotodilla25 26 M
1  question
how do you get an older womens attention - 12/26/2019

anyone have any advice on how meet an attractive cougar / milf / sexy stay at home mom / soccer mom age 35 - 60 range

45 response(s), 46 votes
ScottyEcv 49 M
2  questions
Score 0.3
Location of profile - 12/26/2019

I seem to be getting more views, flirts, listed and messages from members that aren't in this country, my state or even close to my area. Is there a way to have my profile shown in only the area I choose or within a reasonable distance from me.

31 response(s), 30 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
5  questions
Score 1.3
Why so many changes? - 12/26/2019

Why are there so many changes taken place here? I mean one day an IM is pts, then to and now to . Any other sites there that may be better?

57 response(s), 51 votes
Coolhungdude 33 M
2  questions
Sex until they are sore? - 12/26/2019

Ive found that insertion after repeated sessions creates a very tight sensation and my partner doesnt seem to mind

29 response(s), 43 votes
Coolhungdude 33 M
2  questions
Cervical prodding - 12/25/2019

Yay or nay? I find it definitely increases pleasure.

18 response(s), 23 votes
SEDUCTOR692019 24 M
8  questions
Score 1.4
¿ Que excita a una mujer por escrito? - 12/25/2019

A una mujer se le puede estimular con caricias, besos, enseñando el pene etc, pero en ocasiones uno no puede estar con ella, entonces que se le puede decir para excitarla

13 response(s), 30 votes
jay69kl 36 M
1  question
Control Freak - 12/25/2019

Do you guys prefer a control freak girl that have high sex drive?

31 response(s), 34 votes
1salesman3 65 M
6  questions
Score 2.6
Merry Christmas - 12/25/2019

Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas.

22 response(s), 32 votes
Qtowncouple89 43 C
1  question
Advice - 12/24/2019

How many pple would say that porn ruins relationships??

54 response(s), 39 votes
biflydog 50 M
4  questions
Do I let her use me? - 12/24/2019

Almost ago I met a young lady at work, and shortly after that first meeting saw her again. The second time she made it a point approach with a huge grin on her face and was very friendly. She is very pretty, tiny, a gorgeous smile, small tits, and a pretty cool person. Fast forward a year or so, and we run into each other again. Same huge smile, same enthusiastic greeting followed by a ...

60 response(s), 48 votes
Next2us 48 C
65  questions
Do you know why Santa is so jolly? - 12/24/2019

Answer: Because He knows where all the naughty girls live. Merry Christmas everyone and have a fucking New Year. I know I would. LOL <br><br> ...

38 response(s), 81 votes
Xxentric_1 45 F
38  questions
NARCASSIST - 12/24/2019

Has anyone dated, married, a Nacassist? If so why do you think they are a narc?

25 response(s), 51 votes
Iceking6996 34 M
4  questions
Score 0.2
Dick Profile - 12/23/2019

So I know i need to bite the bullit and just buy the gold but I was wondering if i could ask the ladies who read this a question. Does the dick pic in the profile do anything for you? or is it too much out the gate? I keep mine up cause i dont want to broadcast my face and i have a nice cock. lmk thank you

20 response(s), 31 votes
Iceking6996 34 M
4  questions
Score 0.2
Dick Profile - 12/23/2019

So I know i need to bite the bullit and just buy the gold but I was wondering if i could ask the ladies who read this a question. Does the dick pic in the profile do anything for you? or is it too much out the gate? I keep mine up cause i dont want to broadcast my face and i have a nice cock. lmk thank you

7 response(s), 4 votes
Long Distance Flirt - 12/22/2019

So why do people who are a thousand miles away flirt?

54 response(s), 63 votes
A1TONGUEY361 34 M
1  question
Is this just like anyone site fake add? - 12/22/2019

Like I messaged I'm free gave my and offered to host nothing no answer so that's what I was wondering tired of getting credits and no one ever back hell or even wants to meet up is that how it is

63 response(s), 64 votes
Avonsenior 66 M
7  questions
Using points - 12/22/2019

I understand that at this time points are being used mainly for chatting with other members. I normally use points to become a fan of others to be able to read profiles and hopefully contact them via . What have you found to be the best use of the points on this site?

72 response(s), 70 votes
ScottyEcv 49 M
2  questions
Score 0.3
Citymixx Security - 12/22/2019

How many fake profiles have you came across? How many times has someone attempted to scam you here? How many times has someone tried to get you to go to a different site and register? How many Bots have you found? Couldn't or shouldn't Citymixx do more to protect their paying members? It would be nice if they did or could at least put a badge on suspected profiles. I don't think reporting ...

52 response(s), 45 votes
Maskfem 43 M
1  question
is wearing girl pants sexy ona guy - 12/21/2019

i like the way they feel and on ..is this fucked up or no?

48 response(s), 49 votes
Sudden2020 70 M
4  questions
Score 12.6
Do you use IM for Cybersex or to Meet Other Members for Dates - 12/21/2019

It seems that a lot of members I with on IM will for a few days telling what they are going do and what they want have done them and then just before we are supposed have the special meeting of and more , they either quit messaging me or just plain stop replying. So I was wondering is cybersex another version of safe sex.

32 response(s), 34 votes
Cougarbait3333 27 M
1  question
Score 0.2
Is being a cuck sissy bad - 12/21/2019

Do women mind if their husband was turned on by sissy cuck play?

44 response(s), 41 votes
Sudden2020 70 M
4  questions
Score 12.6
To Douche or not to Douche - 12/21/2019

Anal sex can at times become messy, therefore, it is sometimes ideal to give yourself or your partner a douche. The question then becomes when should you douche before having sex. i.e. is the day before too late.

35 response(s), 27 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
49  questions
Score 0.2
Everyone has heard the saying. - 12/21/2019

I am sure everyone has heard the saying MILF I say we come up with a new one MILL which stands for ---mothers I like licking what is your opinion ?

61 response(s), 102 votes
Spunsubinfl 39 M
11  questions
Score 0.3
For real ? - 12/21/2019

wants this ass? Never been splitroasted but definitely am interested.....

24 response(s), 39 votes
Spunsubinfl 39 M
11  questions
Score 0.3
For real ? - 12/21/2019

wants this ass? Never been splitroasted but definitely am interested.....

2 response(s), 3 votes
HungCOstud9 40 M
2  questions
Score 15.8
HOw do I approach my wife about wanting to swing and/or do an MMF? - 12/20/2019

I am a straight white , but I really want to share my wife with another man or swing with her so we can both experience an MMF and MFF and other such combinations... she is not the most sexual person in the world, but we have fantasized about it form time to time.. though I think she uses it more as fantasy and it has now become something I would like to try in real life. <br><br> Any ...

59 response(s), 70 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
49  questions
Score 0.2
Just wondering? - 12/20/2019

A lot of people say Grace before they sit down to eat so before you go down on a woman to eat her out do you say anything?

70 response(s), 92 votes
wanderingman077 48 M
1  question
So all about points - 12/20/2019

Yes most are all about points?

42 response(s), 43 votes
Group Fun - 12/20/2019

What is the best group dynamic...? Is it better to have an even of guys and girls, or better to have two girls with four or more guys- basically, 2 guys for 1 girl? I am trying to organize a little group fun in the Toronto area

31 response(s), 37 votes
HungCOstud9 40 M
2  questions
Score 15.8
best way to find married cheaters.... - 12/19/2019

I am married/separated, it is complicated, but I am tired of waiting for her to make up her mind, I would like to find other married women to have fun with, who want to remain discreet too.

23 response(s), 33 votes
NorthMNFun 58 M
5  questions
Buy a membership incognito - 12/19/2019

I don't want to use my credit card. What's the best way to for a membership without leaving a trail? Thanks

37 response(s), 45 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
I am done !!! - 12/18/2019

Yes, I am done indeed are you? While I have spent less money than I had budgeted for, I think I found the perfect gifts for my loved ones. Now I am thinking to spend some of the money I have left on a good cause, such as Charities for abused women, animals, homeless people, but Chris told me that there are some for abused men. Abused me? Who would abuse a man? Perhaps ...

63 response(s), 94 votes
daq2791 47 M
1  question
Score 8.7
Should I leave her? - 12/18/2019

I have been in a sexual relationship with another man for the last couple . We truly enjoy each others company both verbally and physically. Recently he asked leave my wife and move in with him. I love my wife but also have strong feelings for this guy. What should I do?

48 response(s), 32 votes
Why almost everyone in UK lives in Aldershot? - 12/18/2019

People from UK, Could you tell why almost all women live in Aldershot? <br><br> I have a kind of idea.

18 response(s), 21 votes
Kyguy568 51 M
1  question
Responding on I'm - 12/18/2019

Why would you send someone an I'm and then when they respond back, in a polite manner, you don't respond. If you initiate the conversation i would assume you are wanting chat with them.

22 response(s), 24 votes
Frankiesam98 39 M
1  question
Cheating - 12/17/2019

How you ever fucked someone outside your marriage and it was totally worth it?

39 response(s), 38 votes
Dick Sucking - 12/17/2019

Will you suck my dick if I wash it? <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> <br><br> ...

31 response(s), 42 votes
Henderson855 50 M
2  questions
Here - 12/17/2019

From one to ten.. How do people honestly rate this site?

30 response(s), 26 votes
Henderson855 50 M
2  questions
Here - 12/17/2019

From one to ten.. How do people honestly rate this site?

2 response(s), 4 votes
Wanderer1476 24 M
1  question
Have you had any problems after buying gold - 12/17/2019

thinking of getting the one month gold subscription next month through sms has anyone else done this and have problems or has everything been fine?

21 response(s), 22 votes
cuckold? - 12/17/2019

how meet someone seduce wife

30 response(s), 40 votes
Smoker728 27 M
2  questions
Meeting Locations - 12/17/2019

Where are some good places meet up someone?

27 response(s), 29 votes
Life - 12/17/2019

What do people aspire for in life?

36 response(s), 13 votes
nimrod17 51 M
12  questions
Any Way To Delete Fans? - 12/16/2019

My profile clearly lists my sexual orientation as 'straight' and yet 2 men have made me their fans and even competed to become the top fan. I don't appreciate that women who may be reviewing my profile may get the wrong idea. Is there any way to remove unwanted people from my fan list?...

16 response(s), 25 votes
babeishorny 36 F
18  questions
Score 13.1
just sharing an insights reg Cyber bullies... - 12/16/2019

Not a question or advice seeking but feel free to share your thoughts if you would like. one rule on any online platform - Always be polite and block the ones who are not. Some people hide behind their computer screen to hurl insults and jabs at people they do not know. Much of these insults are coming from the person’s jealousy which is based on their own feelings of inadequacy or ...

64 response(s), 111 votes
allsubbottom 66 M
2  questions
Question for Gay and Bi men... - 12/16/2019

Was wondering.. do you pefer to suck cock more than get sucked?..and why?

43 response(s), 38 votes
dwiczek69 57 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

38 response(s), 35 votes
dwiczek69 57 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

4 response(s), 4 votes
dwiczek69 57 M
3  questions
how can i get more pussy - 12/16/2019

im getting up there in age how can i get more pussy

3 response(s), 6 votes
Toni47250 57 M
1  question
Explain the divergence between the acceptance of by women over bi men - 12/16/2019

Why are by women more easily acceptate over by men

26 response(s), 27 votes
Leobbrj 39 F
1  question
Alguém já conseguiu ter um encontro pelo adulfriendfinder - 12/16/2019

Curioso para saber se já tiveram algum encontro com alguém deste .. contaa ... Vale a pena pagar a assinatura, gostaria de saber a sua opinião !!

5 response(s), 11 votes
GrowNoShow 34 M
1  question
How did you learn to eat pussy? - 12/15/2019

Some people learn how to eat pussy through experience, while others learn through watching porn. Some start as teens while others wait until their college years. I did neither, while I did watch porn it definitely wasn't to learn how to eat pussy. It was majorly watched so i could rub one . I actually learned how to correctly eat pussy by reading. My early to mid twenties were spent on an ...

47 response(s), 53 votes
Sudden2020 70 M
4  questions
Score 12.6
How do you know if your IM friend really wants to meet? - 12/15/2019

Some never show up after they make a date.

47 response(s), 37 votes
Otis_Good 67 M
438  questions
Score 17.1
allergic - 12/14/2019

When a woman becomes allergic to her man's . Is there any hope ?

26 response(s), 30 votes
bedstarr 54 F
2  questions
Clit hood piercing - 12/14/2019

I posed the question the other day about belly button piercing but now I am also thinking about getting the hood done. Whether to do them both or just one or the other? <br><br> I am looking for advise from the women have had them done. <br><br> I don't have any issues with self-confidence, and not doing it just because. But more for , for those sensations. Will ...

46 response(s), 71 votes
hunting4real 62 C
1  question
Finding mature friends - 12/14/2019

Why is it so damn hard find another mature .

26 response(s), 34 votes
albanynycouple51 59 C
7  questions
Score 4.6
cuckold cpls n black men our ya willing to meet greet n freak ? - 12/14/2019

if so sat dec 21 meet greet n freak cuckold cpls love black men albany ny area meet over drink local bar n grill freak at hotel next too bar meet
...

26 response(s), 58 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Taking Advice Seriously - 12/14/2019

We all have different life styles, age, desires, experiences, intelligence level, travel or not, but we all are either female or male. Some of us live in the slow lane while others on or over the edge. I don’t know about you, but I take my AL questions seriously and I also act on, what I think is excellent or good advice. Yes, I did not provide a home or for the lover of my GF who ...

23 response(s), 60 votes
33seanpaul 54 M
1  question
do women enjoy man on man sex - 12/14/2019

do women enjoy man on man sex? what about seeing 2 men turns you on?

12 response(s), 9 votes
Shyguynyc5 43 M
1  question
Score 2.3
Gentleman or bad guy - 12/13/2019

I don't know how to clean this up .... so I'm just gonna spit it out ! How do you tell someone your interested in that you enjoy all the time spent ! But there k!d is bad as fuck . And very rude ?

21 response(s), 22 votes
D0ct0rSF 43 M
2  questions
Best Wat To Nurture A FWB Relationship - 12/13/2019

Title says it all. I always tend to taper off in terms of interest.

16 response(s), 16 votes
D0ct0rSF 43 M
2  questions
Best Way To Get points - 12/13/2019

Hi what is the best method to get points quickly? Thanks!

16 response(s), 18 votes
quemarlavida 26 M
2  questions
How are you? - 12/13/2019

are you really enjoy with your life?

19 response(s), 15 votes
Older women? - 12/13/2019

Why is it that I have always craved older women? I have always wanted to get with an older woman but never have. I have had this feeling forever and it seems to never go away. Can I get some advice on this matter?

30 response(s), 27 votes
Profiles viewed question - 12/13/2019

The other day I went to look at my profiles viewed to look for a lady that I had found in a random search that I didn't remember what I had entered into the search parameters. What I found shocked me when I looked at the profiles viewed. According to it I've looked at a bunch of Dudes! I have not looked at any men! Not interested in dudes. So ether when I answer questions or ...

15 response(s), 16 votes
Couple2Grow69 35 C
2  questions
For the Ladies - 12/12/2019

Do you like to be in control or be controlled? Let me hear your sexy thoughts!!!

12 response(s), 23 votes
can u get points this way - 12/12/2019

can u get points by doing this ?

24 response(s), 25 votes
Flguy34654 42 M
4  questions
Points question - 12/12/2019

I think I know the answer but as a free member, isn’t there a limit as to how many points I can accumulate through pics, blogs? In other words, won’t there be a time when I’ll no longer get any points for these types of updates?

29 response(s), 39 votes
JESSWAYNE69 49 M
1  question
Score 3.0
does this site use bots which interact similar to a person ? - 12/11/2019

could someone please tell me if its possible to receive and flirt without a profile view? since joining i have received 12 flirts and 5 views. <br><br> i will be more than happy to kindly remove myself immediately if the sort of deception is acceptable. <br><br> thanks in advance for any advice or insight

33 response(s), 31 votes
Curious4you98 50 M
1  question
Points - 12/11/2019

Need points. me reach 500 and videos of me stroking and edging for 90 minutes will be posted here. a fellar out?

26 response(s), 38 votes
LeiyaLuv_ 35 F
3  questions
Oral sex on first time hook up - 12/11/2019

Is receiving oral sex, on a first time “Citymixx hook up (sex) ” , something you would commonly expect?

67 response(s), 53 votes
Iwannacthat 52 M
1  question
Score 14.0
No response - 12/11/2019

I'm wondering if the women on Citymixx are so swamped with texts on instant messenger that they can't respond to all IM's or do they just ignore most IM's?

42 response(s), 37 votes
casey2301 42 M
1  question
Points? - 12/11/2019

So how is a good way to earn some points?

23 response(s), 25 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
What can you expect from Standard Members? - 12/11/2019

You have a jungle of profiles on here, only 24 hours in a day, how do you get through the jungle when standard members can’t communicate. You just cut the first tree which looks good? What can you expect from a standard member if he is too cheap to pay for full membership or is cash poor? How can you develop a friendship if you have ...

50 response(s), 65 votes
heidelindi 50 T
16  questions
Porn Star - 12/11/2019

Some years going by and my dream is reality. And it was a first step to heaven How you think about?...

27 response(s), 39 votes
how to get points - 12/10/2019

now it seen it take 15 points to massage someone it fuck up how do you get more points i keep trying but never works

27 response(s), 22 votes
bedstarr 54 F
2  questions
Piercing - 12/10/2019

I have been thinking a lot lately about getting my belly button pierced. <br><br> I am a 55 year old woman who does have belly fat. <br><br> Not sure what others would think of someone my age and size getting one. <br><br> I do have one tattoo which I got over 10 years ago. I know it is my body but what are other people's opinions. <br><br> ...

29 response(s), 38 votes
slut4fam 18 F
1  question
Have some points here - 12/10/2019

This is a good way to rack some points up, yeah?

34 response(s), 35 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
5  questions
Score 1.3
Points - 12/10/2019

Why in chat rooms do people beg for points. Can't you get 200 points for $3 ?

13 response(s), 11 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
4  questions
Score 0.1
Citymixx support asked for my password - 12/10/2019

So there was no way for me to move or delete the photos I submitted for a contest. I contacted support and the guy asked for my username and password. <br><br> When I told him I wasn't going to give my password he said he cant help me. <br><br> ??? <br><br> Since when has any website ever, asked for your password? <br><br> Never. ...

28 response(s), 27 votes
truhottie 44 M
1  question
How do women really feel about male bi play - 12/9/2019

I would like to take a poll of how many women are turned off by the thought of MM bi play

43 response(s), 36 votes
FFU22018 52 F
15  questions
Score 70.2
WTF???? - 12/9/2019

How does this site work for a Standard member??? Especially a guy!?! I can't even imaging it! It's like a nightmare! It's like groping in the dark, then... when you finally get your hand on a tit, its your sister. I let my subscription lapse a couple of times, so I know what Standard is like. Just not being able to see profiles is reason enough to warrant the membership . Also have to ...

48 response(s), 69 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Personal Blings - 12/9/2019

Blings can say more than words could describe, one of the reasons I have blings on my profile to share with people what I like to do when I love someone. In the past I had friends (not intimate ones) do them for me form pics I supplied. However, anyone who liked these blings can/could take them for free and you find my blings also on other profiles. Over the last two weeks, I ...

31 response(s), 40 votes
advent43 63 M
11  questions
Score 4.8
redeeming points - 12/9/2019

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised that when I attempted to redeem some points to a member an email, that option is no longer available. Did I miss something, is there another way to do this other than thru "redeem for features and prizes" ? Perhaps some nuance that I missed? It used to be 200 points to an email, now it appears that's been rescinded.

38 response(s), 36 votes
CJDOU 55 M
1  question
Does IM work? - 12/9/2019

Does IM work?

53 response(s), 45 votes
nimrod17 51 M
12  questions
Fans - 12/8/2019

When a person's profile indicates they have 'fans' does that mean they are broadcasting?

17 response(s), 16 votes
kmack3307 38 M
1  question
My girlfriend absolutely will not do oral on me! Is this a red flag or is this normal for some girls - 12/8/2019

Please answer......is this a normal thing for some women or is this a red flag and should I run for the hills? You answers would be much appreciated.

72 response(s), 55 votes
Letsdothis8078 39 C
1  question
Why does this happen? - 12/8/2019

Ok so my bf and I have been looking to bring another girl in for fun. He bought up this girl he had been with already but she doesn't like me. I told him she had feeling for him still and I didn't trust her. He replied that's not true and she wasn't trying to get him back. Well he cheated with her. I was right 😂. But my question is why does a man have to go see for himself? Why ...

49 response(s), 59 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
4  questions
Score 0.1
Moving photos - 12/8/2019

I took part in the recent contest, but now want to move the photos from the folder created it to another one. Yet there doesn't appear to be an option for it, am I just to re-upload them into another folder and delete the contest ones? <br><br> EDIT: I can not move them, there is no option to move them anywhere. I can't even delete them?? <br><br> Do I need to ...

17 response(s), 24 votes
Greatest Orgy of all time! - 12/8/2019

Who would tap out first men or women? The best thing about this question is the setting and scenery making it a dynamic experience! The setting and scenery would be like a zoo of course without the depending on your kink but a bunch of nakie ppl making out😁 wherever however! There is a bit of everything at the zoo outside attractions indoor attractions underwater attractions indoor exhibits ...

18 response(s), 21 votes
PittHotWife1 35 C
1  question
Anyone - 12/8/2019

Actually read these things?

49 response(s), 52 votes
youradventurecpl 43 C
1  question
How many pics on our profile is too few pics and too many pics? - 12/8/2019

Just want to know if we need more pics in our profile - Thanks

32 response(s), 25 votes
Havingfun377377 35 M
1  question
Do women get turned on by cheaters? - 12/7/2019

Just curious if there are women genuinely get excited about helping a man cheat.

46 response(s), 45 votes
Couple2Grow69 35 C
2  questions
Naughty or Nice - 12/7/2019

Have you been bad? Are you going to make the naughty list like us? If so hit us up.

51 response(s), 68 votes
The Bigger The Better? - 12/7/2019

What are the perfect size boobs?

45 response(s), 38 votes
tucker3344 64 M
3  questions
Has this happened to you? - 12/7/2019

I woke up from a dead sleep to find my girlfriend riding me in a frenzy. Morning wood was strong that day, and it was the first time a wet dream ended as intended. Ladies, have you done this for your lover?

29 response(s), 58 votes
How to enter into the gay porn industry? - 12/7/2019

Years ago, in the Kamikaze Club in NYC, I did Jeff Stryker in the bathroom. He offered to some people for me but I saw no and went on. I've regretted that decision ever since. I seriously now want to try the adult gay porn industry but have no clue where to start. What should be my first move or individual to or write? I have plenty of tapes I can for viewing and would welcome a personal ...

18 response(s), 25 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Holiday planning - 12/7/2019

If you would not be married (in case you are) how would you spend your holiday? Sorry about another post, sorry about having a need to ask for advice again It looks like my week between Xmas and New Years Eve will be different than expected. Just learned that Chris will visit his parents, do not want to see me in his hometown too much and Naomi is going to Aspen with a couple of ...

26 response(s), 44 votes
Eros! Sex Talk! Sexual Language! - 12/6/2019

Does sexual language enhance the feeling during a sexual experience? Or is it the feeling that brings out sexual language?

16 response(s), 23 votes
Is the topic of sex or having sex after introducing yourself totally wrong? - 12/6/2019

Is it the approach or sexual attraction?

22 response(s), 24 votes
aim2pleaseu952 67 T
10  questions
Score 1.9
ways to get around it - 12/6/2019

I have seen some women's profiles that say that size is important, but there are ways to get around it. For those women, if you were really attracted to a man, and found out that he's not exactly "hung like a bull", how do you get around it? What methods would you use to achieve mutual satisfaction?

24 response(s), 33 votes
aim2pleaseu952 67 T
10  questions
Score 1.9
ways to get around it - 12/6/2019

I have seen some women's profiles that say that size is important, but there are ways to get around it. For those women, if you were really attracted to a man, and found out that he's not exactly "hung like a bull", how do you get around it? What methods would you use to achieve mutual satisfaction?

0 response(s), 4 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Likes & Dislikes - 12/6/2019

When looking at my last question, it shows clearly that some older men don’t like me too much Not sure if it is because they have a hard time to go from /8 to =8, had bad experiences with women or they prefer to cuddle up to men. While some had good suggestions, from chocolate, cheese to TAG Hauer watches, some /8 had no valuable gift suggestions at all How sad, at the time of ...

30 response(s), 76 votes
a question for points - 12/5/2019

How to earn Citymixx points??

49 response(s), 51 votes
soc_solice 27 M
2  questions
Paid member - 12/5/2019

advice line post

19 response(s), 29 votes
solice_fred 63 M
2  questions
Standard member - 12/5/2019

advice line post need ?

21 response(s), 30 votes
Wanderingman143 48 M
1  question
First times - 12/5/2019

Whats the easiest position for the first time for anal?

29 response(s), 40 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Important question - 12/5/2019

If you would be my BF or Bi-GF, what gift would you like to receive from Europe when I meet up with you again? Xmas is also upon us, what would you like for Xmas , would it be OK with you if you got only 1 gift for both occasions? <br><br> + <br><br> = and I wish you all a wonderful holiday season Not Bling Owner ...

37 response(s), 52 votes
Lionbone7 35 M
1  question
Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area? - 12/4/2019

Any Tamil Couples or Female around Chicago Area?

16 response(s), 22 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
5  questions
Score 1.3
A question for women - 12/4/2019

Would you rather have sex missionary or doggie style, which feels better? More fulfilling?

27 response(s), 30 votes
Flguy34654 42 M
4  questions
Hangover horniness - 12/4/2019

Does anyone else get extremely horny during a hangover? It’s like I can barely function but damn do I get horny as hell when hungover. Anyone?

22 response(s), 35 votes
1HotCuple 45 C
4  questions
Best/Easiest tools for Bling Makers/Creators?? - 12/4/2019

Question for the best/top bling creators......What Apps/programs do you use to make/animate bling ? Got a lot of ideas but havent found good apps to create them with. Any help with this would be greatly appreciated.!

15 response(s), 31 votes
Have you ever had a touch of the sniffles and horny as fuck? - 12/4/2019

Aww! What a terrible feeling!

19 response(s), 19 votes
2guyinsnj 45 GC
1  question
A question for women - 12/4/2019

Ladies if you were having a 3some with 2 guys. What would turn you on the most?

14 response(s), 21 votes
BLACK_CHARLES 41 M
1  question
Is it ok to have a crush? - 12/3/2019

Is it ok to have a crush on someone who is dating your spouses side of the family? You both know it would be complicated, but they are so interesting.

28 response(s), 35 votes
CollegeFun98 21 M
1  question
Best main profile pics for guys? - 12/3/2019

What types of pics really turn you on from a profile?

26 response(s), 30 votes
Nateformilfs10 34 M
1  question
Were are sex ladies at - 12/3/2019

Why don’t anyone hit back on here

23 response(s), 27 votes
1HotCuple 45 C
4  questions
Bling in Introduction - 12/3/2019

How do you put your bling in your introduction? Do you just use brackets around the bling id when writing your introduction? Also can you put bling in a comment, and if so how??

21 response(s), 59 votes
WyoCowboy7751 66 M
1  question
Which Cam ?? - 12/3/2019

Suggestions on video cam use ?

22 response(s), 30 votes
ayna45 98 M
2  questions
Score 3.9
Profile pic - 12/3/2019

Does any body know why some people hold up a sign in front of themself with there profile name. I don't get it whats the point.

26 response(s), 25 votes
Trapper69 62 G
29  questions
Score 2.5
Who Wants Points? - 12/2/2019

100 people can win 100, 000 points. All they have to do is not post anyplace on this website begging for points for 1 month.

42 response(s), 68 votes
tucker3344 64 M
3  questions
Where are the mature women? - 12/2/2019

Having trouble booking up with mature women (>50). Am I just in a bad location?

34 response(s), 32 votes
tucker3344 64 M
3  questions
Where are the mature women? - 12/2/2019

Having trouble booking up with mature women (>50). Am I just in a bad location?

4 response(s), 5 votes
vakero7mx 41 M
1  question
what happened to the 3 free chats? - 12/2/2019

a few months ago we had 3 free chats a day which made it easier to catch up and make new friends but with all these points stealing one has to go around begging for points. is there a way to go back to those 3 free chats?

46 response(s), 53 votes
Anal sex - 12/2/2019

Ineed a women to FUCK my ASS I am good looking and and want a women to watch me

24 response(s), 41 votes
sexyswipe 30 M
1  question
whos not afraid of anal sex? :) - 12/2/2019

whos not afraid of anal sex?

27 response(s), 31 votes
MisterXTC1000 55 M
1  question
Blogs - 12/2/2019

Does anyone here ever read the Blogs? No one ever replies and thousands show that it has been read. My guess its kinda like the women in here a mystery!!!

22 response(s), 20 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Points - 12/2/2019

Who else here is in need of points?

22 response(s), 32 votes
Questions and Points - 12/2/2019

How is it that after everything has been filled out, , you put pictures up, videos up and do blogs, answer question and write articles, You have to ask people for points. Why?

33 response(s), 35 votes
sussi1028 59 F
365  questions
Score 25.0
Unhappy Friend - 12/2/2019

Would you be unhappy if you find your friend trying to organize her trip home on Citymixx, if you have not an exclusive arrangement? Ali was disenchanted today, because I was looking for options to shorten my layover at CDG, FRA or LHR. Why do I not understand him when he knows rather well that love does not mean exclusivity and he is not exclusive himself. What is wrong to meet ...

39 response(s), 48 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
49  questions
Score 0.2
The new phone. - 12/2/2019

Has anybody else seen the new that has come it looks like a dildo but the problem with it is every time you the you get a busy signal and the voice says --Sorry I can not come to the right now.

18 response(s), 45 votes
What does the “rm_” mean? - 12/1/2019

I’ve seen many profiles with “rm_” pre-pended the username. What does that mean?

21 response(s), 28 votes
Lifeguardamc2 61 C
1  question
update status - 12/1/2019

Wondering if anyone else is having issues with the "status Update" on your profiles?? Mine has not worked in over a month. <br><br> Andrea

25 response(s), 36 votes
babeishorny 36 F
18  questions
Score 13.1
Ever happened to you? - 12/1/2019

I've just noticed that of photo has been missing from profile. I didn't deleted. How is this possible ? (it was approved by the site and had it for a long time) Thanks in advance for your valuable input.

34 response(s), 55 votes
niceguy26272 57 M
6  questions
Points - 12/1/2019

Why is this system so hellbent on taking point? Sometimes you have get of a due locking up, then takes more points start messaging again. What a RIP off

33 response(s), 31 votes
biflydog 50 M
4  questions
Edited posts - 12/1/2019

Has anyone noticed that Citymixx seems to mess up the erotic stories taking words out? Whether it was pasted or typed in the window, it seems just about everytime words are missing here and there. Kind of a pain, really.

19 response(s), 21 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
49  questions
Score 0.2
Does anybody read the profiles? - 12/1/2019

What is it with some people in here they do not read your profile just look at the profile photo and start sending you messages and IM .I have men sending me messages saying things like hi sexy I have 10'' to please you and can bring some friends to give you DP. Then the ones who get on IM saying I am at a motel and horny care to come over? I just wish people would read profiles and ...

41 response(s), 68 votes
BBW/BBM - 11/30/2019

Many women say they are a BBW (big beautiful woman) but I can't find the glossary and I don't know what BBW/BBM means. Help me.

30 response(s), 35 votes
Blueberryz2 31 M
4  questions
Score 0.1
Ive not come out. Should I? - 11/30/2019

I recently came the conclusion that bisexual. Recently being about a year ago, before that I was all kinds of curious. It was when I found myself watching the guys in porn films, just as much, if not more than the women and then having imaginative thoughts while not watching porn. <br><br> Now that I've come out within my mind, should I come out everyone around ? ...

28 response(s), 30 votes
cleangdlkingreal 44 M
3  questions
Mutual masturbation to break the ice? - 11/30/2019

I'm a fan of starting off this way to give us both a chance to relax and enjoy, possibly demonstrate, etc.

29 response(s), 34 votes
cleangdlkingreal 44 M
3  questions
Manscaping? - 11/30/2019

I trim, but generally refuse to shave completely bare as a rule. I also don't ask my partners to, and moreover prefer they don't.

18 response(s), 30 votes
cleangdlkingreal 44 M
3  questions
Eating pussy on the first day - 11/30/2019

I'm down if she is. I mean, I hoping she's sitting there thinking about sucking my cock. seems only fair.

23 response(s), 26 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

13 response(s), 19 votes
this site - 11/30/2019

is this site worth payin for? im not sure

4 response(s), 4 votes
Nakedsex69mmmm69 35 M
2  questions
Ejaculation partners middlebury vermont - 11/30/2019

you be my ejaculation partner Pussy.love I need a dominatrix can feed puss and force ejaculate raw in her puss repeatedly a few times a wee.. <br><br> Vermont I own a house where you can privately allow submit and obey your sexual request and requirements <br><br> Cock torcher ...humiliation ........forced bareback or raw "no condom" ejaculation inside vagina ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
foolinaround6969 49 M
5  questions
Score 1.3
Instant message - 11/30/2019

Does anyone else have problems with IM? It seems I have end conversation in order get a reply, if left open nothing comes through, end conversation and reply comes through.

26 response(s), 29 votes
LeiyaLuv_ 35 F
3  questions
Long term relationships from Citymixx - 11/30/2019

Has anybody developed a long term relationship, or marriage, from here on “Citymixx”? ... if so, were you single and searching? Or left a previous relationship as a result?

29 response(s), 33 votes
Crog78 27 M
4  questions
Toys - 11/30/2019

Whats does everyone prefer? Vibrators or dildos?

21 response(s), 14 votes
Letslipkis 36 M
1  question
Decline in internet hooks - 11/30/2019

Maybe it's just me but the Internet hook up scene seems to be dying a slow death. Do you think people have lost interest in quick and fast hook ups.

16 response(s), 31 votes
Needsalittlemmm 38 M
1  question
Whats the best Tag line you have seen - 11/29/2019

Please reply with the best, funniest tag line you have ever seen on here.

6 response(s), 16 votes
nicco100 51 M
163  questions
Pics - 11/29/2019

For the men, what do you prefer see as the main pic in woman'sprofile??...is it a shot, pussy, boobs/breast, butt, legs, waist, eyes, lips...etc or the whole package???....

24 response(s), 35 votes
DirtyThoughts002 38 M
1  question
Favorite panty color? - 11/29/2019

What i your favorite panty color?

46 response(s), 38 votes
rm_undermythong 39 F
49  questions
Score 0.2
I still remember. - 11/29/2019

I still remember when I was young I would find my older brothers Playboy magazines my friends and me would look at them back then they had so much hair on there pussy you had to get there pubes in your mouth if you went down on them. I am glad it is not like that now or do people still like a hairy bush?

51 response(s), 78 votes
Jjj835 21 M
13  questions
What’s the best date you’ve had - 11/29/2019

What’s the best thing you’ve done on a date

20 response(s), 22 votes
Jjj835 21 M
13  questions
What’s the best date you’ve had - 11/29/2019

What’s the best thing you’ve done on a date

0 response(s), 1 vote
Women's Feet - 11/29/2019

This is a fairly naive question addressed to the ladies but I fully expect the onrush of nasty comments from the guys. This is a good forum to ask these questions so don't hold back guys, be a nasty as you like with your comments - I kind of expect it. So, Ladies. I am trying to understand how to tell if a lady gets sexual pleasure of foot rubs. Some women complain about their feet ...

17 response(s), 27 votes
YoungHuungNow 29 M
1  question
First date in Los Angeles? - 11/29/2019

Any good suggestions?

14 response(s), 17 votes
YoungHung4FunNow 28 M
2  questions
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

23 response(s), 26 votes
YoungHung4FunNow 28 M
2  questions
Earning points - 11/29/2019

What are the easiest activities to get a lot of points?

2 response(s), 3 votes
jo123456201 49 M
1  question
Swallow - 11/28/2019

do all woman love or hate to swallow

22 response(s), 27 votes
Barenaked700 59 M
1  question
Score 1.9
Alternating the Fleshlight - 11/28/2019

Any of you guys alternate the Fleshlight? Hooking up medela breast pump to it gets good results

12 response(s), 26 votes