I am just beginning to explore the BDSM lifestyle, i am very curious and hoping to find someone as curious as i am, if you have experience even better. I'm a Handsome single man in my 40's looking for a smart, funny, sexy woman for dating leading to long term. I have no dependents and am free quite a lot of the time, I like a bunch of different things and looking to find someone who would like to create that new connection. although this is a sex site, i can say what im looking for is much more than that, leave a message and lets start something new.

My Ideal Person Looking to begin what cou;d be a very interesting relationship.
someone fun, funny, laid back, spontaneous, open minded, not over the age of 48 and looking for something more than a scratch of an itch. I do not smoke or drink but ok if you do. let's do something fun or better yet, do something different!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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