Honestly, if you cannot carry on a polite, non-sexual conversation with me, why the hell should I have sex with you? I have zero rea to trust men who let their dicks do the talking for them. lf you voted for Trump, keep walking. We have nothing to say to each other. Please, keep your dick pic to yourself. I adore men, but not flashers. I'm on im if you're polite, over 40, local (within 50 miles of SLC), and would like to chat with the intent to see if we're compatible enough to meet. Not really into just chatting. I am a chubby submissive woman seeking polyamorous lovers. I have a lover (now long distance) we are both polyamorous. (If you are a couple and I have messaged you, then I'm looking for a couple to play with my partner and I) I'm not interested in monogamy, but I do not play casually. I am a mohawked, pierced, tattooed, kick ass, sapiosexual mother, grandmother, artist, seamstress, and semi-active kinkster in the local community. I'm a lady who swears like a sailor, can hold her drink, and enjoys a good cigar. And for the record, I do not shave and will not shave. Stop asking. If you're looking for a friend and lover who is intelligent, willing, and passionate, someone you'd like to spend time with outside of sex, I'm your girl. And yes, I'm bisexual. But I don't play with couples alone, only with my partner.

My Ideal Person At least 45 years old, local, honest, dominant, caring, intelligent. No cheaters, liars, players, or submissive/slave/cuckold men. I have zero interest in casual/NSA sex. No conservatives/Republicans/Libertarians. If you voted for Trump, you have proven that you have no compassion for others and I have no interest in you. I don't care what your religion is, I won't date those for whom church is important.

Look, here's the thing -

My lover is an amazing man, both in and out of bed. Charming, caring, marvelous. I love him dearly. I'd like more people like that in my life. Not because he can't satisfy me -
And anyone who even suggests so can fuck right off - but because I learned a long time ago that passion and love multiplies. Now, I am pretty damn insatiable, so that isn't a worry. But dear lord, you guys who think giving oral for hours sounds great? It isn't. If that's what you're offering, I am absolutely not interested. It's an appetizer, not the main damn course. And to be clear - If you do not support Black Lives Matter and actively fight against white supremacy, racism, xenophobia, and sexism, I will neither meet nor play with you. I do not allow complacent people space in my life.

I want fantastic, connected sex. I want lover(s) that are part of my life, I want to share more than a fuck. Do I want a boyfriend? Sure. Why not. I already have one, more would be great! I want lovers that treat me well, that treat me with respect. I will not settle for less. If you're the kind of guy who thinks jokes, catcalling, and referring to sexually adventurous women in derogatory terms is funny, we're not going to get along.