Hi. I am Elizabeth. I am about to have a hernia surgery. I weigh 285 pounds, down from 342. I'm about to get surgery. So it maybe 3 months before I can meet you. id like to chat and write first. I have bipolar and weight issues and I am also addicted to porn and sometimes to men. SO if your looking for a long term commited relationship. Id be open to it after we got to know each other but most people aren't interested in someone with as many problems as I have. I am in a recovery group at home for my Porn issues. Needless to say I wont be able to look at porn with you. Its better for me to live at my house and us not to live together or marry so I maybe better off with a cuddling buddy. Nut Id like to be friends at first and date someone I can go out on friendship dates with, Id like to be able to go out and be friends with you. That way its not like your using me for sex then throwing me away. So I'm definitly looking for friendship. Because of my obesity I have a few limits but we can talk about that later. I like spirituality going to meditation classes, yoga, music concerts, classic rock hard rock, punk rock pop from the 60s 70s and 80s and 90s,I like museums and art and going tot he movies, going to night clubs to hear classic rock music. For those who are Poly or in open relationhips,I am interested in being in open relationships. That way we can have a relationship without me having to marry you. We can go to Poly meetup groups. I'm open to different stuff too. Id like for you to discover who I am. I am liberal, I will date Christians,Jews and Muslims who are liberal and loving and open and accepting of others regardless of sexual orientation and religion. I am heterosexual, but I don't date those who hate. Did that rhyme? I will date others from other religions same thing as long as you accepting of others, ATheists and Agnostics and non religious people I will date too. I don't date those whoa re not financially independent, must have your own money, car and place to live. I don't host so if you far away from Mesquite well have to get a Motel room. I don't give out money on dating websights. Good luck!

My Ideal Person My idea person will be loving sweet and layed back and easy going.He likes to have a good time and take his cuddling buddy me out for the night to show me a good time and pays for all of it. He goes to the movies with me, musical shows at ngiht clubs and out to eat,museums whereever we can find to have fun.

He needs to be in the right spiritual mindset. Liberal Christian liberal Jewish and Liberal Muslim is ok, or any other religion or ATheist or Agnostic or nonreligious as long as you are not a hater.