Hello, thanks for reading. I am a 60, have a professional career, distinguished looking man with grey to white hair with a short neatly trimmed full beard. I don't have a profile face pic because my profession requires some discretion but I will freely share with genuinely interested ladies. Not into sending dick pics (sex is not a spectator sport), if you are the right per you will get to see the real thing soon enough. I am kind of shy and reserved until you get to know me, have a good but slightly sarcastic and offbeat sense of humor and a bit of a nerdy side too. I like to keep myself in shape with regular workouts, read books, go to sporting events, and concerts, fish, hike and bike when I have time. I like trips to places I've never seen. I like all types of music (except ) and love experiencing new places, music, food, and new people who are smart and funny and just maybe a little bit off in a good way. I'm not especially kinky (unless you consider it a requirement that my partner must like to receive oral to be some kind of a kink) If you read through my profile you can see more about my preferences so that enough said on that topic. I like breakfast in the morning after a night in bed (don't worry I'll cook it), ethnic foods, trying new restaurants in town, and a good cup of coffee freshly brewed or at a nice corner coffee shop. Coffee is my last real vice these days. I like an occasional drink whether it be a glass of scotch, or a bottle of a nice red wine (I'm partial to Pinot) or a craft beer. I like being outside especially in the mountains. I'm a thinker, and I'm sensitive and responsive to others needs but I'm not desperate to get laid, needy or clingy. What I'm looking here is first and foremost real and genuine connections with real women who aren't just here for photo exchanges, or to feed an appetite for quick hook ups with random guys. Yes, I'm seeking an adult relationship or I wouldn't be on this site but the type and quality of that relationship depends entirely upon whether we can find mutual connections and engage one another on other levels beside just sex. What kind of a relationship remains to be seen, the more connections, the more likely it is that I will not be able to get enough of you. So, I'm definitely not seeking onetime hookups with strangers, but beyond that I'm just searching for women I can get to know a little better and spend face to face time with, how we spend the time and how much of it we spend together would depend entirely on our mutual interests and how much we enjoy each other's company. At this point, not ruling anything out but lets start as real friends and see where it goes from there. Kudos if you read this far. Now a word from my sponsor: ATTENTION NO PER OR INSTITUTION HAS MY PERMISSION TO USE ANY INFORMATION OR IMAGES ASSOCIATED WITH THIS PROFILE FOR ANY PURPOSE WHATSOEVER AND ANY UNAUTHORIZED REPRODUCTION OR USE THEREOF SHALL BE CONSIDERED A LEGALLY ACTIONABLE INVASION OF MY PERAL PRIVACY.

My Ideal Person This is a tough one. I don't know exactly why but I seen to always be attracted to redheads, I guess its the fiery personalities that seem to go with the hair. I don't really have an age, hair color or any other "requirement" per se, but hey, it asked for the IDEAL. If you don't quite fit the ideal, but the rest is on target, I'm still interested. I don't really have an ideal other than a woman with a pretty face, lively eyes, a nice smile, who takes reasonably good care of her body (it doesn't have to be perfect) and who can express her thoughts, feelings and opinions both in writing or verbally. Good English excites me - see I'm a nerd. I really would like to find a lady is who is established in her chosen career, and who is educated, creative, flirty, funny, sarcastic, challenging, exasperating, can take a joke or make one at my expense. I like women who have a feminine side but aren't afraid to get dirty or sweaty or physical (get your mind out of the gutter girl), who are in touch with their own wants, needs, and sexuality. I'm not a mind reader (even though I know most of you ladies expect us guys to be), so I like straightforward honest ladies who say what's on their minds and who challenge me intellectually and sexually.

My ideal person would be willing to chat with me on this site and by that, I mean an actual conversation not just one sentence and then I don't hear back for 3 days, and if we hit it off meet somewhere publicly for coffee, or drinks to see if the attraction is real. Not expecting sex on the first meeting. I'm a gentleman after all. If the first meeting goes well and we click, then we can talk about something more intimate.

Definitely needs to STD free and no chronic drug users even if its weed. A little is cool but not looking for stoners. If you message me, tell me something about my profile that caught your attention and what your intentions are. I'm trying to weed out the fakes and scammers with that request. If we connect, I'll send you a face pic, and if you don't like what I look like, no harm,no foul. I won't stalk or harass anyone. How fast or slow things go depends entirely on your response and what kind of chemistry we have.. Thanks again for reading!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Wilco Spoon Eric Clapton Bob Dylan Tom Petty Jimmy Buffet
Black Keys Doc Watson Merle Haggard

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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