I am a standard member!! Don't be shy, do not be afraid to e-mail me! I cannot view complete profiles, flirt, email, listen to your introductions or see your videos. Apparently I can REPLY to emails that have been sent to me and I can hotlist you, very limited. So flirting with me or hotlisting me will not open up a channel for communication. You have to e-mail me! I tried the chat rooms but was basically ignored and the IM is a piece of crap! I am 54 years old, 5 ft 10, 215 lbs with light brown blond/graying hair and blue eyes. Grew up in the 60's and 70's, love and open sexual expression was abundant. Ventured into the lifestyle a couple of times with different partners but didn't find it very compelling, I found that I preferred monogamy. An occasional fmf threesome was alright but swapping was uncomfortable for both my partners and I. Groups all seemed so cliquey and our trepidation made it difficult for us to fit in. I love oral sex, giving and receiving. Something about having my face between a woman's legs is very titillating, even just thinking about it. I am told that I am laid back and drama free. I lead a simple life, I do not drink or do drugs anymore but am not opposed to others doing what they want to do. I am also very non judgmental, I try to get familiar with the inner beauty someone brings to the table. Outer beauty is fleeting unfortunately and if you do not like what's on the inside then it doesn't matter what's on the outside. My first wife was beautiful on the inside and the outside, blew it when I walked away from that. My second wife was beautiful on the outside not so much on the inside, I stayed there way too long. I have had a few girlfriends where I concentrated more on what was inside and found that I liked that approach much better. But women are complicated, they seem compelled to try and change their man, try and make them into something their not. Force their will upon them. My last girlfriend refused to "agree to disagree", her solution was for me to adopt her opinion whether I agreed with it or not. Well that didn't work as you can imagine. I feel that as individuals we have the right to our own opinions and we are not going to agree on everything and that's OK. I don't want to be with a clone of myself and other opinions indirectly have an impact on my own. But don't force me to lie to you and say that I agree with you when I don't. And please don't lie to me either, knowing how you feel whether I agree with it or not is important to me. It will shape my behavior and my decisions when we are together. I could go on and on but I'll save the rest for later.

My Ideal Person I am seeking no strings attached sexual encounters or at most friends with benefits. I do not intend to share my most private life moments with these individuals and I do not want to know theirs. I am not asking for your advice or your opinion on anything and have no intention of offering any. Except as it may relate to what we like and dislike in the bedroom. I am not looking to be judged by anyone and I will not pass judgment on you. Age and race is not an issue with me, we are all human beings with feelings and emotions and we all deserve respect. All of us here are adults and we came here for many different reasons. One main reason was to find sexual gratification of some kind. I am straight; I love women, women of all ages, all shapes and sizes, all economic backgrounds, basically all women. We are not planning on sharing our finances with each other. We are not planning on sharing our daily lives with each other. We plan on sharing moments of intimacy either one time or ongoing. These relationships do have the potential of becoming more than that, but to start with that is what they are. Do not meet with me with any other expectation. I certainly do not have over reaching expectations. If you want to be treated respectfully yet be completely ravished in the bedroom then you are my ideal woman.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Role Playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
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Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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