Hi, I'm 35 yrs. old happily married to a great guy but has in the last 4 yrs. figured out that I am also interested in women so my search began I have had a few experiences so far but have yet to fulfill the real thing since they were not great experiences. My hubby does know about my extra activites & he is ok with me doing this on my own he does not have to be involved at all but if my special friend doesn't mind then after a couple of encounters I may want to invite him but that's a big maybe all this is really for me & I can be pretty greedy..lol! Nobody else knows this about me but him so I would like to be discreet when in public. I am not looking for a 3some with your b/f or spouse nor do I need an audience so if he must attend then I am not the girl for you..I am looking for one on one girl play!

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman between 27-45 yrs. old size is not an issue with me since I myself wear a size 16. I do prefer a white or hispanic woman. All I ask is that she be honest & upfront with me from the start as I will be & she must be discreet. So let's do lunch & have some dessert afterwards! WINK! WINK!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Spanking

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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