The bad: I'm separated, not yet divorced. Parts of my body (skin) that ain't so pretty. Lowish self esteem. Overweight (not obese). Not a good kisser, but willing to learn =). Not particularly good at oral, don't like it much. Sorry. I'm super shy, and will not initiate anything. You must take the lead. I'm not the prettiest girl in the bunch - I'm pretty average. The good: No STDs, discrete, passionate, willing to try.. quite a bit. I can play either the submissive or dominate role.

My Ideal Person Absolutely NO diseases.

You MUST be discrete if you are a male. If you are a female, we can be friends in public, DISCRETE about sexual matters.

I'd prefer you be 40+.

If you are male or a couple - YOU must host. You must provide transportation to and from (taxi preferred). You must provide some fine wine. Hey, I'm picky.

If you are a female (or couple with female) - just know I don't know what the hell I'm doing. I'm good at taking directions.

If you are a female... you can come on over. I can host. You must prove you are a female either by voice or webcam.

If you are a male, you must provide some proof that you are not a psycho killer. How? I don't know. You must come up with that too. I need to feel safe and comfortable around you.

You must treat me like you value my time and presence, and I will do the same.

For all... we must meet first in a location of my choosing. There must be at least a little chemistry.

Mind you, I LOVE it rough. I don't like hair pulling, but I love to be manhandled.