We've been in the lifestyle for years. cliche thing to say is "we are selective " ,but we truly are. We've been to most clubs and nude beaches from okanagan to southern Alberta. This site isn't really our best way to meet potential friends. It's mainly the male half online and I'm sure I've been excommunicated our limits. I ask every and any question to figure out what people are truly looking for. We're a full swap cpl but like every thing that leads up to it but doesn't have to be full swap. only a few have cracked the code to enjoy my wife. Let me spell it out. We've never invited anyone over for sex. Always like to meet in public places. a few dates getting to know each other. Because of this we've filtered out a lot candidates. If I like you on here I will add you to kik. We may both chat to you there as both me and wife are on there
My Ideal Person People may recognize us as we've been around the lifestyle for a while. But who we were is not Who We Are, it is changing progressively . The options truly are endless. With the right people that experiences can be delightful. In regards to what we look for in a playmate:
Wife loves guys with tattoos who are in shape and enjoys a hairy chest.(not too hairy as she doesnt want a sweater haha). This is not a must but these are her turn ons. She likes men who are flirty, down to earth, confident, can hold a conversation and knows how to make a girl blush. No drama! Sorry Im picky.
Husband loves girls who ate outgoing, confident and doesnt mind taking the lead.
We are very discrete in the lifestyle and would like to keep it that way. We are STD free and would expect the same. Condoms are a must!!