Hi there fine lady's and fun couples, If I only had one statement to catch you attention, then the sentence would be 2 words long. "I CARE"... ...Oh, that wasn't enough for you to write me a long letter in response and meet me for a lovely time out on the town? I see, you want to know what I care about? Well, lets postpone discussing the obvious, given that this is an adult website. O:) I CARE about YOU. YOU as a person. I love getting to know new folks, learn about their culture, background and what makes them tick personally. I CARE about folks in general. I am an extremely empathetic individual and I generally described as approachable and even inspiring. I CARE to be an individual who is educated yet down to earth, funny but not obnoxious, fit but now obsessed with self, confident but not Ego driven, successful in my business yet not consumed by it. I CARE for my loved ones, my family, friends, significant other and her family. I CARE to be honest with self and others. I CARE to CARE. I CARE to GIVE pleasure. I find great fulfillment and satisfaction in 'my' partners enjoyment and pleasure. I CARE for good communication, but also love to talk dirty. Who am I? A Designer, Athlete, Artist, Craftsman and Architect. I am in my mid 40's but love to measure my physical abilities with men much younger then myself. I have a life-partner (a significant woman in my life) who has an open mind (just like myself) when it comes to sexual exploration. We have played naughty games together as a couple (I enjoy watching her with other men) and now we are seeking physical pleasure solo. We are very comfortable with that and therefore will avoid singles who cause a lot of drama.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is a woman who has the ability to enjoy herself in and out of the sheets. While I am mainly looking for physical encounters, I love knowing that there is more depth to the lady I am with. I love to see a woman in a state of pleasure and ecstasy! Any woman. I am not the type who discriminates against looks, shape, age and size. Any woman can be hot, hence your attitude and personality are the MOST important things to me. You must be STD free, have reasonably good health and good hygiene practices. Please realize that I am neither cheating on my partner (she exercises the same freedom I have), nor am I unsatisfied with her, nor am I seeking for anyone to replace her.
I would prefer an ongoing play friendship as I am not seeking for quantity but quality instead. But, if we hit it off and you just want a one nighter, I am sure I will be ok with it and the proper protection.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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