Hello everyone. Well, I guess this is where I introduce myself. My name is Aaron. I am 32 now and just recently came back to this site after a long hiatus. Nothing was really working so why be here? But, I have decided to give it another shot. At least I have this, a record of things, and I can be as frank as I care to be (without mentioning names of course). I really do not know what to expect. Maybe nothing, maybe something, who knows? But, to say I am sexually repressed is an understatement. In fact, I do not count days or months, I have moved on to counting years between partners and experiences. And I wish that was an overstatement. Guess, what plays to that is that I am shy, sometimes very shy. I also dress conservatively. People probably think I am boring and traditional; so-called normal. Things are usually further from that. I am a liberal-minded, spiritual per living in the middle of the Bible Belt. I have a very open mind to most everything in this world, and there are only a few things that would make me cringe, i.e. anything illegal, watersports, and the like. I am short, and stocky, but not too big. At least I think so. But, there is this other side of me that I always wanted to explore, but never have the opportunity to do so. I guess since, I am shy and seemingly conservative, I do not have much opportunity to explore it. But hopefully things will change.

My Ideal Person First of all, I do not do random hook-ups. Other than a good way to get diseases and such, you can wind up dead as well. I like to know the people I am with.

Also, I am bisexual. Although I do lean heavily on women rather than men. Emotionally, beyond friendship, I am not into men, at least for the most part, just physically. So, I do not want anything more than a friends with benefits sort of thing. I did have a crush on my best friend in high school. But he is the only one I have ever had romantic feelings for.

Women on the other hand is different. I love women, and seem to get along with them better than men. Really the only thing I do not like is when they nag you to death, or try to control you. Being honest about you position is good, but forcing me to go along...that is another story.

One major rule I have is that I try not to hurt anyone. Everything must be in the open. I do not sleep with anyone behind their boy/girlfriend's back. I will not ruin any relationship. That is just bad karma. Another major rule I have, which alluded to earlier, is that I do not do random hook-ups. I like to make friends first, go out on a few dates. Then if something happens, and everyone agrees and is ok, then it happens. I also like to stay within my age group (typically 25 - 40), though that can be stretched on occasion.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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