I am a tall Irish/Italian mix and with a contagious half smile, dark hair and a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor and a sex drive that seems to be going full speed. I also enjoy having something to talk about out of bed, and find laughter and smiles can be one of the stronger socially acceptable aphrodisiacs. I am drug and disease free and practice safe sex. I love to hear and feel my partner having a great time in bed (or on the couch, or wherever the mood strikes us). Although I'm here to play as a "single" male, I am married and playing with my wife's permission. We have been married for over sixteen years and have a strong, loving marriage. I have a higher sex drive and she does not have a problem with a playmate for me. She would be happy to verify that I am not cheating on her! I know saying "my wife knows" is nearly cliche, but occasionally it is also true ... I do not have my face visible in the public shots as I occasionally teach as an adjunct at the college, the same pictures without the black bars are available to friends. I am back to being a gold member for a while, I'm not certain if I will extend past the end of February. I understand that the ladies and those couples who welcome additional men have a wide variety of choices. I also understand they receive a great many contacts in emails that are just simple "Hi, wanna fuck?" and pictures of a crotch when their profile specifically suggest that's not what they want to see at first contact. I always try in my initial messages out to show that I have read the profile and indicate why I have an interest or why I think he may fit with the profile says. I understand the traffic volume that the ladies in the couples accepting single males receive, I find it disheartening that despite attempting to take the time and effort to reach out, and despite not having sent a form letter, most find themselves unable to even reply with a simple, "Thank you, but we are not interested." I guess in some ways it's just as well they didn't respond, rude and inconsiderate people are a major turnoff for me!

My Ideal Person I am looking for a possible playmate or playmates. Friend with benefits would be nice, although not opposed to just sex relationships or occasional hookups. Although my wife has no drama issues with this, kids and family members living nearby means discretion is important and hosting is a little difficult – although not impossible.

A nice smile, an urge to explore sex with new playmates and confidence are important. A woman who enjoys wearing lingerie is a definite plus! I have always loved what an attractive pair of heels can do for a lady's legs...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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