Newly single after a long marriage. Looking for friends and fun. (That was my initial offering, now after one day on here am adding this) Ok have now been on this site for 24 hrs. During that time have had 13 messages from male profiles, usually in the USA, saying they are actually female and have made a mistake when joining site but can I send them my contact details anyway. Answer is NO!!! So if this is you please don't bother doing it. I won't reply or open your messages. I have been amazed at how few people on here are what they say they are. How can you get to know someone if you are unsure if they are male, female, animal or insect? I am 47 yrs old, white, separated after a long marriage, I have , I run my own company, I live in Bedford UK not Bedford anywhere else, I am kind, considerate of others feelings, I am not some violent nut case, I am not looking for my soul mate on here but if she comes along that would be wonderful. I am trying to rebuild my life by starting to have some fun after not having any for a long time. If you are female, unattached (I won't do to some other guy what has been done to me), can leave your emotional baggage at the door of the resteraunt where we have dinner the first time and can hold a conversation which involves whole sentences and contains no text speak at all then I would love to hear from you. Otherwise I will let my 3 month subscription run out and try speed dating. I saw it on 'the hangover iii' and it looked like fun. Especially with the goth girl. So I guess we will see what happens from here.

My Ideal Person I would like to meet a woman who is funny, intelligent and self assured who enjoys going out and having fun as much as staying in and having fun!