I will want to chat or email you before meeting you in public. I don't have much free time, so I will likely have to plan ahead to meet you. Don't take it as disinterest.

My Ideal Person UNATTACHED! UNATTACHED! UNATTACHED!

Someone more intelligent than stupid. Someone more attractive than ugly. Someone more adventurous than boring. Someone more secure than needy.

Okay...so I am beginning to find that there are as many definitions of friends-with-benefits as there are possible partners. THESE are the basic guidelines for what I want...

Be single. Unmarried. Unencumbered. Drama like that should be on stage, not in my bedroom.

I want to hook-up with you a couple times a week or so. That means sex--exploring what you like, what I like, etc. That is my idea of benefits.

I should also be able to have an enjoyable conversation, a glass of wine, a basic idea of who you are. Someone who offers comfort, fun, and honesty is my idea of a friend.

If we go out somewhere together, we leave together. If someone else joins us for play, it is because we both want it.

If you ever want a shot at bareback fun, get tested. Often. Be safe...there is some scary stuff out there and that is one of my favorite body parts.

Beyond that, if at some point we both want exclusivity, so be it. If not, keep it wrapped, keep me satisfied, and I don't care to know.

And, of course, if either of us starts into something serious elsewhere, honesty prevails. A good lay is much easier to find than a worthwhile friend.

Whew. Have never actually tried to define that before. If you are still reading and think that you might be up for the adventure, drop me a line.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Jimmy Buffett, Eagles, Cake, anything live

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, willingness to wrap it up!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Mark Wahlberg, Matthew McConaughey, Andrew Shue. Individually,
so that I could focus on enjoying each of their talents.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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