Welcome and thank you for your interest. After using this site about a month I realize that I needed to revamp and expand my profile. Mostly to enhance my chances of success and partly because I think the ladies here deserve better. This site is designed around a mans natural perspective to relationships and sex. (let’s get to it!) But after reading some very well written blogs and posts, I realize that women are still women, and if I don’t make an honest connection I will be going nowhere fast. I recently ended a long term relationship, but not sure where I want to go from here. I have only had LTR in the past, but would like to start out as friends. I think that being in love in a monogamous relationship built on trust is the best situation anyone can hope for. But I question if that model really fit’s the complex world we live in, especially for those of us in later life. The women I have been attracted to, and I, have many similarities. We are well established in a very secure life style. We have a balance of work, home, family, friends, and activities that we are very happy with. ( Could read “set in our ways”) So is it realistic to expect to find a romantic connection that would fit seamlessly into our well established routines? Would a friends with benefits be a better answer? Your thoughts? And to be clear, the friends is just as important as the benefits. We all need and deserve a romantic connection. When I think back of the most memorable times in my life, it wasn’t the exotic location or the amount of money spent, but the per I was with that made it a cherished memory. All of the most pleasurable experiences, like romantic weekend getaways, going to dinner, movies, theater, concerts, long drives to nowhere, and more require a romantic connection. Just to be clear, I am a healthy, adult, male ( read horny as hell) and we are both on AFF. I’m not going to tell you all the things that I am going to do to you after we make a connection. Partly because that will be tailored to your desires, and partly to keep some mystery. I know you like a little mystery. Let’s just say that my handle sums it up nicely, and you will receive the attention and affection you deserve. In the profiles I read ( yes I do read them) I see a lot written about baggage, drama, stress, and people still living in the past. All I can say is that I won’t except any of that in my life, or bring it into yours. 100% of my focus will be on keeping our lives running smoothly and creating some cherished memories together. Learn from the past but live in the future. I am completely single and unattached. Probably like you, my life is hectic. Between a full time job, projects I create, investments to be managed, and business ventures there is always something that needs attention. But that is what makes it possible to enjoy the spice of life. And I do understand that making time to grow and enjoy our love connection is the goal of all the work. I have been around a long time, and could go on and on about things I have done, places I have traveled, stupid mistakes I have made. However I am reminded of a quote I heard. “This should be like a women’s skirt. Long enough to cover the subject, and short enough to keep your interest.” So I will end it here, but I would love the chance to tell you the complete story, and even let you shape its future.